I'm a male in my mid-20's and recently, about a month now, I started seeing this girl. In the beginning of our relationship we discussed sex and determined to wait a bit to make sure it was more than just hormones. i was all for that, so in the mean time we fooled around a bit manually(like 3 different days but on one occasion multiple times during the night, 3 times total with me climaxing 2 out of 3.), which was fine.
The other night we started fooling around and after we were both done we started talking about sex. And ended up realizing that both of us were definitely ready. Well we had sex and much to my chagrin it was over much sooner than I wanted it to be. So we decided to have sex again a few hours later after we took care of some other life stuff (work and errands). When the time came I had a hard time getting it up. I figured it was stress but finally was able to get it up but again the sex was shorter than I hoped.
In the morning I decided to give it another go. This time there was no problem getting aroused, and the sex was about 20 minutes until she had to leave, during this bought however, I was unable to climax.
Anyway I'm wondering if this is normal or what? I have had sexual encounters where I have finished 4 times within about as many hours. I have come up with several theories, the first was pressure and stress. Stress to perform the time where ED happened, and stress with the time constraints during the morning jaunt. My second theory was lack of sleep for the ED, and my last theory was dehydration for the non-climax.The only thing that I think would have fixed the lack of climax would have been taking off the condom and going at it bare back. but any input as to the cause of these problems would be great. Thank you.
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