So I'm a 24 year old bloke and I've had an issue since I started shagging (about 9 years ago now). I rarely ejaculate while having sex with girlfriends. Well, even sex not with girlfriends. Basically, I find it hard to climax from having sex. No issues on my own.
The issue isn't that I don't climax from sex. I can and do - its the frequency of this not happening that bothers me. There have been weeks where I've had sex multiple times every day and I've not gotten there even once for the entire week. There have been entire months when I've not managed to achieve orgasm while having sex. It isn't just me that this irritates. My girlfriend of a year and a half is very perturbed by this, and I can see it eroding her self confidence.
I can count on one hand the number of times another person has brought me to orgasm - twice. Both times with the current girlfriend, from sex. I've never gotten there through hj's or bj's.
Condoms or no doesn't seem to make a difference. Basically, I've come to assume that I'm far from normal and am up the proverbial creek without a paddle in this. Am I right, or is there something (things) I can do to help?
The issue isn't that I don't climax from sex. I can and do - its the frequency of this not happening that bothers me. There have been weeks where I've had sex multiple times every day and I've not gotten there even once for the entire week. There have been entire months when I've not managed to achieve orgasm while having sex. It isn't just me that this irritates. My girlfriend of a year and a half is very perturbed by this, and I can see it eroding her self confidence.
I can count on one hand the number of times another person has brought me to orgasm - twice. Both times with the current girlfriend, from sex. I've never gotten there through hj's or bj's.
Condoms or no doesn't seem to make a difference. Basically, I've come to assume that I'm far from normal and am up the proverbial creek without a paddle in this. Am I right, or is there something (things) I can do to help?
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Even though I am a girl, I know how guys masturbate because I watch my boyfriend do it all the time. First you should make sure you are free of interruptions! It's a lot easier to cum when you are stress free. Watch some girls getting of or something online or talk dirty to someone online to get turned on. What really turns my boyfriend on is when he watches me getting off, so try looking up videos of that (if you don't have a gf). Then with a loose fist start rubbing up and down. Some guys cut holes in things and stick their d!cks up it, but I don't recommend it. Stroking it will do you well. I hope you cum hard!
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