hey guys,
i was beaten up 6 months ago, i had an operation because of that incident i had a facial fracture, they had to put 4 titanium plates on my face(cheek part) the doctors said that i need 6 MONTHS to fully recover so that my facial bones can stick with each other again, now this coming oct. 25th is the 6th month for me to fully recover. this past six months i realized that i was consumed by terror, i was consumed by fear, i was hiding from the one who beat me up, then this past 2 weeks i just thought that maybe getting revenge would satisfy me and remove my fear. so i was thinking if i should revenge or not. can u please guys help me, i need some answers before oct. 25th thanks in advance
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hello there, i can't even imagine how u must be feeling. to be traumatised like that affects a person emotionally for a very long time. revenge is not the way to go about things because then u become just like the person who beat u up. i would report it to the police if u haven't done so already. it saddens me to hear of people who go through stuff like that.
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actually we did report it and filed a case against him, but i think its still not worth winning the case. i think my fear wont never leave me thats why i need an answer thou. :/
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philip9888 wrote:
hello there, i can't even imagine how u must be feeling. to be traumatised like that affects a person emotionally for a very long time. revenge is not the way to go about things because then u become just like the person who beat u up. i would report it to the police if u haven't done so already. it saddens me to hear of people who go through stuff like that.
hi there philip9888
actually we did report it and filed a case against him, but i think its still not worth winning the case. i think my fear wont never leave me thats why i need an answer thou. :/
i wish i new what to say to help u. i went through a huge amount of emotional abuse and physicall abuse when i was a teenager.
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eyeshield wrote:
philip9888 wrote:
hello there, i can't even imagine how u must be feeling. to be traumatised like that affects a person emotionally for a very long time. revenge is not the way to go about things because then u become just like the person who beat u up. i would report it to the police if u haven't done so already. it saddens me to hear of people who go through stuff like that.
hi there philip9888
actually we did report it and filed a case against him, but i think its still not worth winning the case. i think my fear wont never leave me thats why i need an answer thou. :/
i wish i new what to say to help u. i went through a huge amount of emotional abuse and physicall abuse when i was a teenager.
i just now that u will get through this. i have come through so much hurt and pain in my life and at the time it feels so unbearable and i just had to push myself forward and wait till things settle down. it was a long hard road for me. when i was in primary school my dad smacked me so hard that i fell straight to the floor and i felt so shocked and stunned. and i was smacked by a school headmaster oneday. it's hard to experience stuff like that and hurts a person so deeply.
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philip9888 wrote:
eyeshield wrote:
philip9888 wrote:
hello there, i can't even imagine how u must be feeling. to be traumatised like that affects a person emotionally for a very long time. revenge is not the way to go about things because then u become just like the person who beat u up. i would report it to the police if u haven't done so already. it saddens me to hear of people who go through stuff like that.
hi there philip9888
actually we did report it and filed a case against him, but i think its still not worth winning the case. i think my fear wont never leave me thats why i need an answer thou. :/
i wish i new what to say to help u. i went through a huge amount of emotional abuse and physicall abuse when i was a teenager.
i just now that u will get through this. i have come through so much hurt and pain in my life and at the time it feels so unbearable and i just had to push myself forward and wait till things settle down. it was a long hard road for me. when i was in primary school my dad smacked me so hard that i fell straight to the floor and i felt so shocked and stunned. and i was smacked by a school headmaster oneday. it's hard to experience stuff like that and hurts a person so deeply.
so am i going for revenge mr. philip9888?
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