Hey, i am E. I am young, I am in middle school. First, this guy asked me to go to the DANCE, I like him.. Well he is really sweet but not my type. I really dont wanna be mean and say no and 10 min after my DREAM GUY asked me! What should i do? 2. I think im getting my period my sister and mom got it earlyish. I have cramps and back panes and REALLY bad headache. 3. I know how to masterbate and stuff well kinda.... 4. My nipples really hurt, my boobs jiggle and are forming. 5. I wanna ask my mom for a cup bra how should i? Please help me!!!!!
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1. If the boy is really sweet and you have a good time with him go. You never know a night out at a dance might really impress you and the guy you are crushing on may not be your type at all. I look back at some of the guys I use to like and they are all losers who went from football quarter back homecoming king to working mcdonalds etc. Sometimes a really nice sweet guy is better than the hot dream guy.
2. The symptoms of cramps, back pains, and bad headaches are normal signs of a period. You may be starting it soon since your around the age most girls start in middle school. I suggest keeping some kind of protection in your locker and an emergency bag. In the bag you should keep a spare pair of underwear and pants incase you start your period in school. Also keep in the bag 4-5 pads/tampons which ever you are going to use for the just incase. And after you start your period you will still need the emergency bag because sometimes your period can be early or late depending on stress and other things.
3. As far as masturbation it is completely normal to start exploring your body and seeing what feels good. Just remember just because your friends are having sex you dont need to. Being a virgin is a good thing to wait for the man you love to give him this special one time gift. If and when you decide to have sex you need to talk to your mother about birth control because if your old enough to have sex you need to be responsible enough to protect yourself and mature enough to tell your mother you want to be safe. (I know this sounds crazy but you have no idea how many 13,14,15 year old girls on here are worried about pregnancy monthly!!!!)
4./5. Yes if you feel your breast are starting to grow and causing you discomfort by not being supported then you need to talk to your mother. Stick with white or nude so you can wear cute tops and not have your bra show through.
Your mother will always be there for you through good, bad, and ugly. You need to start developing a strong open relationship with her so you feel comfortable asking her anything. She will love you regardless of the situation. Good Luck
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