Stress Impotence? or medical condition?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months now. The sex (when it happens) is amazing! However, let me back track a bit....Around the same time we got together, he also got a really important promotion at work, adding a ton of additional stress onto his already stressful job. We share an incredible chemistry but sometimes, when it comes down to intercourse, there is either a lack of erection or an erection that isn't cohesive to lovemaking:( This isn't every time! But the times it happens, I can't help but feel like its me. He says its not me, but its only human nature for me to think it is. I would totally marry this man and start a family! But....what if this is what lies ahead for us? Is this worth ending a relationship? Is there a solution other than quitting his job? Help!

could be many things, but I assure you amazing sex does not die so quick. So it is not you and if hot sex was 8 months ago, there is more in the future.

Could be stress and help for this could be hot tub, massage and or any other way of removing stress. The other could be testosterone lowered as well as thyroid and or other problems. Check some videos on prostrate massage and try this. Watching porn and such will also bring up the levels. Dr can order blood test to help him. One item to remember, if you push him to preform it could add to this problem. If you live together and spend the night, start wearing his shirt and let your bottom hang out. sit and read a book and let his eyes wonder around. Self stimulation could spark things.

all the best