I just turned 17..im a normal dude in high school..I get out a lot and im real social..I end up with a lot of girls but the last three girls ive been with i couldnt get hard!!...like i would get a BJ and be hard then as soon as i got the condom on I would just go soft..its so embaressing!...and im beginning to think i have a prob..could it be from masterbating? I do it like everyday..at least before bed it helps me sleep. Should I stop for a while? and see how that goes...its so embaressing to me and its bothering me so much that im having this prob of not getting hard..I mean im 17 friggin years old like what the hell..Does anyone else mya ge have this prob? what did u do to solve it?...im gonna stop doing it for a week then try having sex..i can understand that it may make sex less desirable because your jack it so much..im just wonderiing if this is normal :/
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Hello Alex,of course you can stop masterbating for a week,and see if that helps. Masterbating shall not lead to problems like this.I think,when you shall have sex,you are so "afraid" for not getting hard, that you can't relax and enjoy what she is doing to you. It can be performance anxiety,and that can destroy a boy and his sexlife.
Don't worry, in 2012, the most men have experienced this. Talk with your gf, be open and ask her to solve this with you. I am sure that soon you will be a "rocketman" in bed. In bed,you shall not perform anything,you shall only enjoy it and have a good time,with the one you love.
Good luck Alex,things will be alright:)
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It might be normal because its just a one-night kinda thing. Masturbation isn't the cause of this, but you may try to see if does help. If you don't mind, try getting some turned on Goat Weed.
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It's sounds normal to me. If it goes on forever and ever, it could be a psychological problem.
But physically, you seem fine.
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