I Just got this new girl i been seeing, and for the past week or so, i havent been eating or when i do i get full very fast! and i dont get hungry anymore....last night we tryed having sex, and i got hard and when she started playin with it, it went limp, then i couldn't get it hard again...
FYI: thro out the day we were makin out and grinding and id get hard but then it would just go down cuz something would come up but then when it came down to it, i went limp...
any help? is it just mental? %-)
FYI: thro out the day we were makin out and grinding and id get hard but then it would just go down cuz something would come up but then when it came down to it, i went limp...
any help? is it just mental? %-)
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And I forgot to Add, I Have Lost The Urge To Masturbate.....idk whats happening to me
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i think you`re too nervous. especially if you didnt know the girl before. try relaxing and talking to her more and hang out more, talk on the phone some more etc. be friends with her first and sex will get more comfortable.
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ight ima try talkin to her on the phone, we usually just text. but thats a good idea to get more comfortable wit her.
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Okay i think ima just get more comfortable to her, i think its just mental cuz of the cant eat, and having trouble sleeping.
do you think if i force my self to masturbate to bring back my sex drive would help?
do you think if i force my self to masturbate to bring back my sex drive would help?
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no. dont force yourself to masturbate. that will only make it worse. your erection will be weaker. masturbate only if needed. i for one have some problems myself with my girl friend. i can have sex and everything only when i get to the cumming part i really have to concentrate and take my time with it. last time i didnt masturbate for like 10 days and it was way easier to come.
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alright im gonna try and wait it out and hopeully the urge come back.
im just worryed my girl will be like wtf if the next time she wants to have sex i cant get it up..witch will prob be today or in acouple days...
im just worryed my girl will be like wtf if the next time she wants to have sex i cant get it up..witch will prob be today or in acouple days...
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alright im gonna try and wait it out and hopeully the urge come back.
im just worryed my girl will be like wtf if the next time she wants to have sex i cant get it up..witch will prob be today or in acouple days...
i never expected my tool to let me down at 19....WTF!
im just worryed my girl will be like wtf if the next time she wants to have sex i cant get it up..witch will prob be today or in acouple days...
i never expected my tool to let me down at 19....WTF!
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dont worry. things dont always work how we plan them to. just stay cool, act like a man and think about how you`re gonna break her in half. if you hadnt had this problems before this one then theres nothing wrong. its all in your head. you`ll get over it.
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Okay Im still having the same problem, as soon as we start makin out and feelin up on each other ill get hard and then right when we stop it starts to go down?...WTF
to much foreplay? should i ask her for oral when it get big? WTF do i not have enough testosterone in my body err what
im able to masturbate just fine..and with a full erection
to much foreplay? should i ask her for oral when it get big? WTF do i not have enough testosterone in my body err what
im able to masturbate just fine..and with a full erection
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okay im still having the same problem! i need help getting rid of sex anxiety! My gf talks about sex alot! and i think ima just gettin to nervous about satisfying her. if u were to see me you would never think i would have this prob so my gf thinks ima just lay it on her and its gonna be the best and im so worryed that im not gonna satisfy her to her expectations. i need help ASAP
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Its all anxiety IMO. You don't have pressure to perform when you masterbathe so u can ejaculate. But when you want to have sex with her there is too much pressure, pressure that you are putting on yourself. It is just sex. Tell her to give you a couple of shots in bed before she judges because you are too nervous. Tell her you have too much anxiety to perform because you want to satisfy her and that all guys have this problem. She will appreciate your honesty and also this way she knows that if everything doesn't go right it isn't because of her. Girls tend to blame themselves because they think they aren't sexy enough or whatever.
What you do: Make her promise that she won't judge before she gives you a couple of shots because you are too nervous since you think that if you don't do it right the first time you won't get another chance to prove yourself. Explain that nervousness or anxiety causes an inability to perform for men. So if she makes you comfortable then you will be able to perform. She should be understanding. Good Luck.
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What you do: Make her promise that she won't judge before she gives you a couple of shots because you are too nervous since you think that if you don't do it right the first time you won't get another chance to prove yourself. Explain that nervousness or anxiety causes an inability to perform for men. So if she makes you comfortable then you will be able to perform. She should be understanding. Good Luck.
Wrap it before you tap it. ;-)
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