Dépends on the situation. When I go somewhere were I don't want to risk a hardon I put on briefs (working place for example), when I hang out in the evening with friends I wear boxer shorts but there are also situations as when traveling abroad or shopping or taking holidays where I have fun going commando even if I only wear shorts. This summer we went to the Mediterranean Sea and I didn't take any underwear, I stayed in shorts all the time and it was fun having hardons or having the tip of my penis come out of the shorts when seated. My friend was amazed how easily I did this. But freeballing has definitely to do with exhibitionism as far as I'm concerned because you can't hide getting hard.
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my gf would like me to go commando or even to show myself "casually" naked in front of her friends
I'm not quite at ease with this, she wants me to get erections and show them
it all started last summer when I did it during holidays abroad, nobody knew me, it was a stupid dare and I did it for a whole week, wearing shorts and on the last day sweatpants which was of course completely insane because even when soft you could see the form of my glans
now she wants me to repeat it in the company of her friends and I don't feel comfortable at all
we tried it with her sister and she put up a very good job of pretending not to notice until my friend started to touch me
what should I do?
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Hi, I suppose you made up your mind in the meantime. I wanted to share my own experience but I may as well tell about it as an answer to your problem. I have had exhibitionist tendancies from my puberty on. I have been told that is fairly common during puberty, but I still like showing. Of course I put on a show of modesty most times, but there are friends who tolerate my exhibitionism and there are also moments when I'm some place where nobody knows me where I like to live it. So I did what you did in holidays, and I even had my glans stick out of the leg of the short and when my penis got hard it came all out and I pretended not to notice. So it all dépends on the situation. There are friends I feel free to show off to and to others I would never. One asked me once to show off to her frieds and I did it with pleasure.
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Underwear are a total waste of money and time. I believe they are made for men with low self esteem
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Hi I searched for exhibitionism and I landed here. I've got a problem with a friend, well not really a problem but still I don't quite know how to react. We know each other for a long time and I've already occasionally noticed that he had an erection which was very visible through his clothes. Now, since last month I have the impression that he's never wearing briefs when we meet and he's always hard. When I asked him where he had spent his holidays, it came out he was at a nude beach. I asked him if he had already done that before and he said yes. I told him I could never do that and asked him if he wasn't afraid of getting an erection and he said that he regularly has one and told me outright that I must have noticed over the years that he was often hard. I couldn't deny that and he went on saying that he was actually more comfortable naked when hard because he thought it was less obscene and he asked me if I didn't think it was obscene when his penis sticks out in the trousers. I said yes, a bit, actually, and I asked him what he meant by telling me that, if he wanted to undress. And he said yes, if I didn't mind. I was so taken aback that I let him do it. He didn't do anything to me, didn't try to grope me, nothing, it was only him with only a tshirt on and his hard penis. The situation was weird from every point of view. I never wear bras because my breasts are really small but of course my nipples are visible that way and I suppose that disqualifies me to say anything to him. I don't even want to say anything. But on the other hand I don't want to see him like that again. But if he really feels better that way then I say to myself why not. In short, I'm totally confused and don't know what to do.
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My dear, it seems to me you have two possibilities. If you feel harrassed in any way, tell him so openly and ask him to wear something and something which hides his erections better. Your nipples is a very different thing much more accepted socially anyway. But if honestly you don't feel ill at ease let him undress. In a way I suppose one could say that you opened the box by asking him if he wasn't afraid of getting erect.
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freeballing is hot because there's always the risk (of getting hard), I do it a lot, wearing jeans when I don't want my erection to be noticed, or lighter trousers if I don't care. I never did it in sweatpants though because I think that would be too weird but I did in shorts as a dare
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how was it in shorts? I mean that I certainly wouldn't do, I'd be afraid that the whole thing'd come out
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I'm not the guy who wrote here in the first place but shorts is actually good, you don't get the "tent pole" effect because the penis lifts the whole thing from bottom up and you don't get the glans outlined because the fabric doesn't get stretched but on the contrary it gets folds, I find that easier to assume. Of course when you're only semi-erect, it shows in the same way than in sweatpants, but since it's only half-way up it's not that shocking. I have the "whole thing" come out only if I sit or get on my knees etc., so there's no problem when simply walking. Most of the time I'm simply soft or semi-erect anyway.
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I’m naked in bed except when it’s realky cold. Recently I did try wearing boxers but found I had a semi-permanent hard on with them,
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I always wore underwear. I was in athletics throughout the year, so it made sense to wear underwear.
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I love 'freeballing' as it enables my penis to hang free and be gently touched by the material of my sweatpants and also it is sexy to feel the breeze flowing through the fabric to stir my penis and balls. After an hour or so I have a permanent hard-on and a nice sticky patch of precum. In what way do you think it is ';safer'?
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