I come from a shame based /religious family so i never liked the idea of masterbation and swore away from it until I was 16. My first orgasm was the most exhilirating experience of my life, but I felt so much guilt and shame. I continued with my habit thereafter but really had to get used to the embarrassment of it. My friends all were very conservative and never spoke of it and denied ever doing it at that age. Now that I am older, I read on several sites, that most girls start at 9-12. Do they mean actual orgasm or just figuring out that area feels good. I read that masterbation is healthy for all ages, but I really don't know if I could have handled an orgasm between 9-12 in some cases younger. I would have had a hard time coping with it at even ages 13-14. I know a lot of girls must masterbate at 13-14 yrs of age, I certainly wanted to but the thought of it deterred me. I am so surprised more girls, in some cases very young are so okay with it, especially if they are having orgasms. I feel there is something wrong with me if girls so young are having orgasms. I would have felt like something was terribly wrong with me.
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I agree, I became addicted to the feelings and continued frequently after my first masterbation experience when I was 16. Did you ever feel shamed when you masterbated when you were 12 or after your first orgasm when you were 14/11115? Was it something you kept to yourself? I felt so odd everytime I orgasmed even though I was already 16.
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Thanks I am the same way. I only like to talk about it with guys who are special to me. 0ther than that I only will talk about it anonamously on a site like this because I have learned so much and don't feel so alone about this issue that can be touchy to a lot of people. I like that people can share so much of their personal issues in a safe place. I have had to come here for a lot of questions about body shame and man issues. I think it is cool that you never felt embarrassed. I was fairly educated through school and such, but it was still an issue for me maybe since I am religious that is why.
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