Hey.. im a 22 year old virgin.. and soon 2 be non-virgin.. only thing which holding us hack is blood... Me & boyfriend both hate blood..
I know its different for every girl, some bleed abit, some bleed alot...and some dont bleed at all.. i was recently told..that it could also depend on your family...i.e.ow much ur mom or sisters bled?
what are your views on this? how much did u bleed? how did u manage it?
I know its different for every girl, some bleed abit, some bleed alot...and some dont bleed at all.. i was recently told..that it could also depend on your family...i.e.ow much ur mom or sisters bled?
what are your views on this? how much did u bleed? how did u manage it?
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That is untrue - about your mother and sister! ALL that determines it, is the correct positioning, the size of girth of your partner! And how used to a foreign object your vagina is - such as a tampon, masturbation etc.! And please know that it is just a little blood, as long as you have enough lubrication and protection it isn't a big deal! You can use a stretching technique of your hymen, stretching it gently with lubrication etc. IF you guys get too stressed about the what IF, you WILL tense up and it will be less pleasurable and a bad experience for you both! So just take it easy, be tender and relax and nice and slow! Good luck - weird for me saying that by the way!!! ;-) o.O XD
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Thanks.. But Reading some topics here, freak you out. Esp wen u hear & read that some girls bleed for few days.. :-( Wer both nervous, as this will be the first time for both us but we are trying to laugh it off..So that we dont stress over it & take it easy..
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Due to the fact that you waited and were waiting till you were older, this will be better! The other young girls on here have been VERY young and most of the time they are with guys who are just glad to be doing it and not taking enough care! When you are in your 20's the lines of communication are more open then when you are a teenager - not all the time of course but for the most part! Young girls are pressured into it by their boyfriends, other friends, the media etc, and they aren't ready physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually etc. ! So they think it's going to be like a Brittany Spears video and it's not! So they tense up and make things worse! So it has a lot to do with the maturity of these girls AND their bodies! Honest honey, you wont need to be taken to the hospital for a blood transfusion!!!!! ;-) o.O XD XD It will be fine and also CONGRATULATIONS on waiting till the time was right!! It's refreshing - especially on here with myself counselling SO many young girls like REALLY young girls! It will be fine honey honest!
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Thanks... :$ but i so need to get over this fear of blood. i have all sort of questions running through my head..like, how will i clean the blood? how long will i bleed for? my boyfriend hates blood and so do i, so it makes it difficult to get over it :-(
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Just use a shower IF it happens, and you will need some tissue under you guys - DEFINITELY have your boyfriend wear a condom! It's not HUGE honey! Honest!
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