my girlfriend and i (me being a male) are thinking of having sex for the first time soon. we are both sixteen years of age.
weve experimented with masturbation and oral sex and have both enjoyed it.
apart from the common preacutions, i.e. condom, go slow, etc. is there anything else we should take into consideration? and could someone please tell me of the implications of full penetration?
weve experimented with masturbation and oral sex and have both enjoyed it.
apart from the common preacutions, i.e. condom, go slow, etc. is there anything else we should take into consideration? and could someone please tell me of the implications of full penetration?
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Be sure to apply the condom properly, as most condoms tear as a result of improper usage (there should be instructions on the box). Practice this before the actual sex if you've never put on a condom before. Second, go and buy some lube and use lots of it, this will greatly reduce the pain or discomfort she might feel. Third, if she's a virgin there is the possibility she might bleed when you break her hymen (vulgarly known as "popping her cherry") so be prepared for the blood. Fourth, have her be vocal. The best way for you to please her is if she tells you what is working for her and what isn't. And just because you're finally having sex doesn't mean your hands have the night off, work her clitoris, most women can not orgasm from sex alsone. Fifth, you should be aware that you likely will not last very long before orgasming if you are a virgin. You can do a number of things to remedy this, most effective being masturbation. You should masterbate and learn what it takes to control and slow down your orgasm. Also masturbating before you go to have sex with her should make you last longer. Also be aware, either from discomfort or your lack of stamina she may not orgasm. If it is because you got off too early, then you need to roll up your sleeves and finish her off by mouth or hand or both. Just because you're done, don't assume she is. Lastly, and most important, sex is an extremely emotional event, particularly for women. There is no way of knowing how she will react afterwards. Some girls regret losing their virginity. But if she seems happy and content with her decision, she still needs conforting and shown love. Show her she made the right decision. Kiss her, hold her, comfort her, cuddle her. Show her you were worthy of her giving you her most sacred, precious gift...herself.
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How will she react at our first time? How can I behave myself? Do you have any advice for the first night together?
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