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The right age is AFTER you've hit puberty. I give my own example. I was 13ish when I had my FIRST sexual experience. It was awesome because I had a much older boyfriend who knew how to handle my emotions, moods and how to make sure I have the best experience.
There is NO good reason to delay or postpone sex if you know you have a nice boyfriend who you are comfortable with. You will find many who will advise you have sex when you are ready. I am not sure if there is any optimum time when you are "ready" Your first time, whether you are 13 or 31 will still bring on that anxiety, apprehension, fear, nervousness and trepidation. Being older doesn't make it any better.
To me the most important thing is to be "prepared" Read up, understand your body, discover through masturbation what makes you feel good and what brings on those pleasurable awesome sensations. Also you need to know about STDs and to make sure your guy does not have any. Please refrain from drugs and alcohol and never get tempted to use them just to "calm your nerves" You dont need anything to calm your nerves. Sex is thoroughly enjoyable and extremely pleasurable. It is NOT painful like many describe it to be. The reason it is painful is because those girls are not adequately lubricated, haven't engaged in enough foreplay and are really scared and cant relax. This is where you need to have a good, understanding boyfriend and a proper place with privacy, where things can be taken at their own time/pace and not rushed into.
So 15 is a great age. Just make sure you prepare yourself and take precautions against STDs and pregnancy. Do you masturbate?
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Just out of curiosity, at what age did you start your period? How old was the guy?
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Glad I was of some help. Message me if you need to chat. Yes the biggest concerns are STDs and pregnancy. Take precautions against those.
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This is so silly to be deciding to have sex based on ones country. For heavens sake sex is about 2 individuals wanting intimacy and taking their relationship to the next level. Please don't worry about where you live. Just be discreet and protect each other. I was 13ish when I first had src with someone very mic older. It was fabulous and the most exciting and mind blowing experience. If I was thinking of legalities I would have missed this experience and most likely have ended up having the worst experience with someone my age. So please. Don't use legalities when deciding to have sex. You are ready to have sex when you hit puberty. You have your choice to choose whomsoever you want to have sex with. Just take precautions against STDs and pregnancy.
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Also in rural communities there are also girls who fall pregnant earlier that 15 through unprotected sex. Just go to the maternity hospitals and ask the gynaecologists how many terminations they perform on very young teens.
This suggestion that India is more moralistic is total bull.
As I say sex is instinctive and will happen irrespective of race religion, morals or prevailing laws.
Just accept that sex is normal.
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