What is the ideal age for a girl to have sex?

Hi
I m planning to do sex with my boyfriend.
We both love each other. I m 20 years old but really worried about doing it

why are you worried?? Having sex is NORMAL NATURAL BIOLOGICAL INSTINCTIVE and PHYSIOLOGICAL. What is your reason for being scared.
The stupidity that people try and instil about you not being emotionally ready or your body not being ready is just a huge amount of pigswill. Those things will/may happen no matter what age you are, when you have sex for the first time.
The moment you hit puberty, nature has announced you are ready to have sex.
Sex is extremely enjoyable provided you prepare for it and take precautions.
Being ready is NO criteria for having sex because you can never be ready.

I believe if you love someone, you should be able to make love.

I mean im 15 too and my boyfriend is 17 but me and him both agree that we are too young to start having intercourse. I would wait until your like 17 or 18 to start ya know doin the deed. Me and him have done other things besides intercourse and I think it's more pleasurable. But if you do start having sex I would use protection and bring more than one condom, don't use a condom twice and some good advice is to urinate before (obviously take a shower) and after anything sexual cause it helps with infection and it makes you feel better too.

I agree with you.i want to do sex but i not get a girl .what i will do

Really? at 15 you are not too young. Society and the law have made young teens believe they are too young. You are ready for sex the day you hit puberty. When you indicate that the right age is 17 or 18 you are talking about the age determined by society to be the legal age. Now this is NOT the natural biological age when you are ready. We as a society have made an artificial age and what we are doing by that is we are prolonging our childhood and childishness and delaying emotional development. Thats such a shame the way we interfere with nature, biology and instinct.
Also there will be numerous idiots to tell you that because you have sex you have somehow disrespected yourself or that you have issues with self respect and confidence. That is total rubbish and a way to brainwash you into believing some rubbish that is an artificial construct.
The most simple way to know when you are ready for sex is when you feel like doing it and this would coincide with hitting puberty about the age of 13. When you start masturbating your body is preparing you for what sex will be like and when you find it pleasurable you know it is okay to have sex.
Biology is just fascinating but we humans set out to destroy that by making artificial rules and putting a moral and ethical label to it. Then they go about brainwashing girls that they should wait till marriage, that it is a sin and that it is a lack of self respect when they have sex at an early age. How stupid and narrow minded is that. Why doesn't anyone tell boys that. Let us see how many boys listen to that advice. Girls are made to feel like s**ts, made to have a guilty conscience and made to look as though they have made a huge blunder if they have sex early. Why cant we celebrate sexuality instead and let teens have sex whenever they want and prepare them making sure they are not subject to violence drugs or alcohol and they don't fall pregnant or develop STDs instead filling their minds with rubbish and so called artificial morals. Sex has NOTHING to do with morals. It is a function like any other biological need and function in our body. Sex is your birthright. Dont let anyone or any stupid law dictate to you what you should and should not do. Do it if you want when you hit puberty and with anyone you like and desire. The choice should be yours.

It has nothing to do with that law its there personal choice! Why are you trying to promote under age sex? This is exactly why teenage pregnancies are so high these days because they do not realise it only takes one unprotected sexual contact for it to happen!

the term under age is offensive. Seriously..If teen pregnancy is on the rise it is because they do it under circumstances of being scared and worried and neglecting safe practices instead of our society preparing them and teaching them how to use safe methods. Our society is so very irresponsible and has a lot to answer for. Our society is responsible for the rise in teen pregnancy and is to be blamed for this because there is no proper education and irresponsible comments like the one I am replying to are made.
I am not promotong anything. On the flip side you cannot tell them that sex is wrong and that they must wait. How dare you make a normal biological and instinctive function of our body, taboo!! Most teens will wait but there are a few who want to start being sexually active early.
Dont lie to teens. Don't make a moral or ethical meal of it to try and scare them into submission. Be broadminded. Understand that SOME teens will want to have sex and there is NOTHING wrong with that. What we need to do is educate them and teach them how to protect themselves and how to have safe sex. Is that so hard to do? We are failing our teens by lying to them and teaching them nonsense about morals, the law, religion and stupid stuff so when they actually have sex because of an overwhelming instinctive need, they begin to feel guilty and have psychological issues.

Teen pregnancy is on the rise for the simple reason they are not mature enough to think of the consequences of what's going go happen if they have unprotected sexual contact, you only have to read the posts on here from young girls that have just been dry humping let alone the ones who have had full sexual contact to realise that!

that should tell you that you dont need maturity to want to have sex or to have sex. Just accept that premise. Now what we must do as a society is to teach them and prepare them so when they do have sex then they know about protection and not just take risks.
You are right. We have to teach them about the consequences of unprotected sex and teach them how to have protected sex and not make it a taboo.
Education is the key. Not laws and rules, morals or religion or do gooders who waste all their time trying to brainwash teens that they should wait and not have sex early.
That approach doesnt work and we dont learn from the lessons and experience we have.
We need to accept that teens will have sex and then turn our resources and energy into teaching them safe practices. Do not make it taboo and do not attach a moral tag and make them feel guilty. That never works because they will find ways to have sex and you will have the same consequences ie teen pregnancy.
When you legislate and make things taboo you just drive it underground. Just accept and stop chaperoning teen sexuality. Leave them alone and give then advice and tools. Teach them safe sex. Simple. Teach them responsibility.

I'm not making it taboo I'm simply saying that to promote underage sex as you are doing by saying its OK for 14 year olds to have sex is fine is wrong when the legal age of consent is 16 in most countries simply because they are not mature enough at that age to make responsible decisions and are not getting the sex education they should to prevent teenage pregnancies!
If 14 years old were given the rights to vote in elections do you think most would understand the decisions and what they were voting for with out education?

So you think voting in elections is the same as wanting to have sex? Are you for real?
Is voting an instinct? Sex does not need mental maturity. Sex is a BIOLOGICAL function and comes naturally and instinctively. Please compare like with like.
I am not promoting underage sex. Let me try and make you understand that for the 10th time. I am not promoting underage sex. I am a teen myself and I started having sex at 13ish with a much older guy who made sure I never came to any harm. I didn't need mental maturity. No one does when it comes to wanting to have sex.
I am saying sex is instinctive and it is but natural for this instinct to become strong at puberty. Not all girls will have sex BUT some will and if we do not give them adequate teaching or preparation for this event we will continue to have an increase in teen pregnancies.
Also saying that sex is bad and trying to brainwash them not to have sex because of morals, laws, religion and societal opinion, is not going to generate the response you are trying to achieve ie a decline in teen pregnancy. You yourself has acknowledged that teen pregnancy is rising - well all your advice about sex is not working. Cant you see it??
Surprisingly you are also talking about the legal age of consent. When I brought that up in one of my previous replies you tried to tell me that it wasn't about the law!!
Work with biology. Sex will happen and a few girls/boys will want to have sex early. You cannot bury your head in the sand and pretend you can brainwash teens to refrain from sex during their early teen years. ACCEPT that teens will want to have sex and will have sex and will find a way to have sex. Work from there. Dont waste your resources and energy trying to stop them from having sex.
Teach them, educate them, dont make sex a taboo and prepare them, PREPARE them well for when the event does take place. That should be the way and you will find the incidence of teen pregnancies will drop.
You simple accuse me of trying to promote teen sex. You need to open your mind and look deep and find a real solution to this problem of teen pregnancy.
Calling 14 underage is very convenient but a useless label and extremely offensive. Doing that makes teens more determined to break out of that societal dominance.
To have sex at 14 is very OK. It is the way God created us - to have sex and thats why we get the urges at the start of puberty to have sex.
Dont try to control nature. You will fail miserably. Work with it and you will succeed.
A teen is an adolescent = young adult, NOT underage.

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Why Indian girls are alien or what why should people make restrictions on this..

can i have sex with you soniya

Now a days gals get have sex much earlier then boy say 14 onward