Okay so, I'm currently STILL a virgin, but me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex during Christmas Break which is indeed far from now, but most of my friends told me what's it like having sex, you hear them going "Oh you'll bleed for sure girl" Or "Yeah your hymen will break when he sticks it in there ;-)" And another goes " You'll bleed about a table spoon or so once he pops it!"
But what's it really like? Is it really that painful when he thrust it in there? Or will it be like a pinch?
Cause I heard the guy might have to hold you down if you squirm too much cause it kinda hurts, and it might not fit in cause it's too long and your too short (I'm about 5"3 currently) And my boyfriend is around 5"8 and his penis is like 7.5 (Dunno if that will fit or not...)
And what are the after affects after having sexual intercourse? Will anything happen to my Vagina? Cause the only thing I know is I gotta wait till 2-3days for it to recover.... And after I wait for those days to pass by can I still have sex after that? Or will I still have to wait for my vaginal to recover?
But what's it really like? Is it really that painful when he thrust it in there? Or will it be like a pinch?
Cause I heard the guy might have to hold you down if you squirm too much cause it kinda hurts, and it might not fit in cause it's too long and your too short (I'm about 5"3 currently) And my boyfriend is around 5"8 and his penis is like 7.5 (Dunno if that will fit or not...)
And what are the after affects after having sexual intercourse? Will anything happen to my Vagina? Cause the only thing I know is I gotta wait till 2-3days for it to recover.... And after I wait for those days to pass by can I still have sex after that? Or will I still have to wait for my vaginal to recover?
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Anyone who tells you that you must be held down to be kept from squirming is filling you with fears. No one should be held down against their will while a partner penetrates them.
By definition, that is rape.
As I'm not female, I can't tell you what first intercourse will be like.
I imagine it depends a lot upon your physical size, angle of insertion, level of arousal, prior experience, and most of all patience and understanding on the part of your partner.
If your boyfriend and you are planning this experience together, you should both discuss your expectations and the need to go slow, with lube handy, and set some ground rules... like when to stop, and what you'll say if you want to slow down, stop or pause.
Some couples have "safewords" that they only use when they want to stop immediately. Not just "oh, stop, stop..." because that can be part of their verbal loveplay and mistaken for the intent. Something obvious like "RED LIGHT" or "Yellow light" for STOP or Slow Down can't be mistaken.
You can talk about this and your concerns well before hand.
And don't forget to discuss protection and birth control. The time to plan is now, not in the last few moments when passion is surging.
Good luck.
By definition, that is rape.
As I'm not female, I can't tell you what first intercourse will be like.
I imagine it depends a lot upon your physical size, angle of insertion, level of arousal, prior experience, and most of all patience and understanding on the part of your partner.
If your boyfriend and you are planning this experience together, you should both discuss your expectations and the need to go slow, with lube handy, and set some ground rules... like when to stop, and what you'll say if you want to slow down, stop or pause.
Some couples have "safewords" that they only use when they want to stop immediately. Not just "oh, stop, stop..." because that can be part of their verbal loveplay and mistaken for the intent. Something obvious like "RED LIGHT" or "Yellow light" for STOP or Slow Down can't be mistaken.
You can talk about this and your concerns well before hand.
And don't forget to discuss protection and birth control. The time to plan is now, not in the last few moments when passion is surging.
Good luck.
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