hey, well im a first timer , and i am really freaky about first time sex. i mean like, im not scared that its going to hurt, im just scared about how much blood will come out, or when it comes out, or if it comes out when i stand up. see, i am really shy about my body, well basically ' down there ' . and oh right, im only thirteen but like, im not sure if its the right age or anything? am i ready, or should i save myself till im older?
my boyfriend is a first timer too, and im scared that he might stick it somewhere hes not suppose to.
HEELLLPPP? i dont know what to do. MAYBE IM JUST TOO YOUNG TO UNDERSTAND THESE THINGS..
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Hi Lee,
Don't have sex just to have sex. You don't need to rush at all, take your time. Since you don't feel you understand all these things wait until you do.
Your boyfriend can wait too. If he tries to get you to have sex by saying something like "you will if you love me" then he's USING YOU.
Here's a few things to consider:
1. You might bleed, you might not. Not all women bleed the first time they have sex. Many do, it's due to the hymen tearing.
2. You CAN get pregnant the first time you have sex. USE PROTECTION every time, and use NEW protection each time (don't reuse condoms).
3. Precum, your boyfriend may have fluid on his penis before he enters you, MAY contain sperm.
4. It only takes ONE sperm to get you pregnant.
5. Once you start having sex with your boyfriend, it's harder to say "no."
6. He WILL tell his friends and you MAY develop a reputation that you don't want.
7. You can not tell if your partner has an STD (Sexually Transmitted Disease) in most cases.
If it sounds like I don't think you should be having sex, you're right.
Hope it helps.
Don't have sex just to have sex. You don't need to rush at all, take your time. Since you don't feel you understand all these things wait until you do.
Your boyfriend can wait too. If he tries to get you to have sex by saying something like "you will if you love me" then he's USING YOU.
Here's a few things to consider:
1. You might bleed, you might not. Not all women bleed the first time they have sex. Many do, it's due to the hymen tearing.
2. You CAN get pregnant the first time you have sex. USE PROTECTION every time, and use NEW protection each time (don't reuse condoms).
3. Precum, your boyfriend may have fluid on his penis before he enters you, MAY contain sperm.
4. It only takes ONE sperm to get you pregnant.
5. Once you start having sex with your boyfriend, it's harder to say "no."
6. He WILL tell his friends and you MAY develop a reputation that you don't want.
7. You can not tell if your partner has an STD (Sexually Transmitted Disease) in most cases.
If it sounds like I don't think you should be having sex, you're right.
Hope it helps.
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Thank you, for the advise. i will take it to heart. and well he doesn't use things like , ' If you love me ' , and he isn't that type that would go tell his friends, but you've made me realize that its a stupid idea. thank you , really appreciate it .
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