My boyfriend of 2 years watches porn, tries to hide it, lies to me about it when i find it (when i do find it im not mad i even tell him i like to watch porn too but he still denies it). He watches porn 4 or 5 times a week and he doesnt act very interested in real sex we might have sex 2 or 3 times a month and its been like that since we have been together. When we do have sex, not all the time but sometimes (about 1 out of 3 or 4 times), he cant keep it hard or he cant cum.. Other than this our relationship is wonderful we have complete trust in each other, get along amazingly, and still have a great spark of magic so i know its not because of any of that... If anyone has any input or helpful info please let me know cause im stumped! Thanks!
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Most guys feel guilty about watching porn even if they all enjoy it. When you say you enjoy watching too he probably thinks your just saying it to please him which makes him feel worse !!!
I suggest you let him catch you masturbating to porn and that might convince him to watch together that way he can hopefully keep it hard and lead to better sex
Good luck !!!
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Sounds like he has had a long term addiction to porn that is very hard to break even after entering into a relationship. You could try to talk to him about it but unless he's the really open type I doubt wether you will achieve anything. I assume he masturbates while watching porn so you could always ask if you could watch him, or even help him while he watches. Gradually get bolder and get undressed and play with yourself while he's doing his thing and maybe he will be distracted from the porn and start to show a bit more interest in you. Also if you know the type of porn he watches maybe you could try to copy it in real life.
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