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Safety: Controlling Others or Loving Yourself?

Safety: Controlling Others or Loving Yourself?

Margaret Paul, Ph.D. Healthy Living

The wounded self believes that feeling safe is the result of having control over others, but do you really end up feeling safe? Discover more about this major lie of the wounded self, and what does create an inner sense of safety.

Boredom

Boredom

Margaret Paul, Ph.D. Women's Health

Pamela, in her early 50s, was often bored. A highly intelligent and creative woman with many interests, she found herself eating to pacify her boredom every evening after coming home from work.

The Challenge of Speaking Up For Yourself

The Challenge of Speaking Up For Yourself

Margaret Paul, Ph.D. Women's Health

What do you do when you get a knot in your stomach in response to someone being subtly inauthentic, angry, judgmental, demanding, or needy? You know this person wants something from you - you can feel the pull on you - but it is not overt.

Addictions and Self-Judgment

Addictions and Self-Judgment

Margaret Paul, Ph.D. Addiction & Recovery

Charles is caught in a self-destructive cycle that causes much pain and immobilization. It is a cycle that many people are stuck in. The negative cycle starts with some form of self-judgment.