14 and can't ejaculate

You sound like your puberty is delayed.

Many young guys who are just starting puberty find that when they masturbate, from which they derive intense pleasure, they have an orgasm but nothing comes out of their penis (no ejaculation). This is called a dry orgasm.

Boys start puberty at different ages so the age of first semen production varies. One has to be in puberty a year or longer before semen production starts, so there is nothing to ejaculate. Although the muscle contractions to produce an ejaculation occur, there is no semen to ejaculate because semen production has not yet started.

When you penis becomes super-sensitive and you can’t masturbate any more, then you are in the refractory period. That happens after an orgasm.

When semen production does start, there will be only a few drops at first. It usually is clear instead of milky-colored. The quantity increases later and the color changes to milky white.

Just enjoy your dry orgasms while you wait. You will see some semen come out eventually.

Masturbation is necessary to satisfy the ongoing male physical need to discharge semen to prevent and relieve pain from overfilled seminal vesicles and prevent “blue balls”. Frequent masturbation prevents wet dreams. Regular ejaculation is associated with better prostate health. Masturbation is a great stress reliever. There is no upper or lower age limit for masturbation.  Very young people and elderly people do it.

Masturbation is relaxing, pleasant, enjoyable, harmless, healthy, normal, and contributes to restful sleep if done before going to bed. One cannot get a sexually transmitted disease from masturbation.

There is no accepted definition of excessive mastulbation. Your body will tell you when you have had enough.

One may masturbate as much or as little as one wishes. There is a period (called the refractory period) that one must wait before doing it again. Some teens find they need to do it three times a day. You may do it again whenever you feel ready. Your body will tell you when it has had enough for a while.

One may do it in any place where one has privacy. In bed at night, on the toilet, or in the shower are some favorite places to masturbate.

The internally-lubricated movable nerve-laden, erogenous foreskin and its gliding action is an important aid to masturbation.

Circumcision was introduced into medical practice in the 19th century to unforeskin the penis and make it impossible to masturbate. It did not stop masturbation but it made it harder to do and perhaps less enjoyable.

How one does it depends on whether one has an internally lubricated movable foreskin that glides up and down the shaft or whether you have been unforeskinned.

If you are foreskinned, then all you need to do is glide your foreskin back and forth. The foreskin is internally lubricated with lymphatic fluid and glides without friction. The outer foreskin glides over the inner foreskin. It is not necessary or desirable to retract the foreskin. Foreskinned guys normally do not require additional lubrication. The numerous nerves inside the foreskin are stimulated by the motion and generate pleasurable sensations. Foreskinned guys must be careful not to stress their frenulum because it can tear or snap.

Long and vigorous masturbation can cause the foreskin to become edematous and swollen, which is painless and not a cause for alarm. The edema usually goes down within about 24 hours. Pulling back too hard is apt to stretch the frenulum and may tear it.

If you are unforeskinned and the shaft skin is taut and immovable, then you will need some lubrication and you need to slide your hand up and down the shaft. You will likely injure yourself without lubricant. Friction burns are common when a male without foreskin masturbates without lubricant. Some lubricants are baby oil, vegetable oil, personal lubricant, soapy water, and saliva. Products containing harsh, irritating chemicals should not be used. Shampoo and body wash have been found to be irritating and should not be used.

It is common for an unforeskinned male, who has been deprived of his internally lubricated foreskin, to have friction irritation if he does not apply external lubricant.

Thanks a lot, it was worrying me but not so much now as this answer came from someone very experienced by the sounds if it! Thank you, have a nice day

Could not agree more with 'Health Elite' well said, just one point regarding not masturbating at all, some very religious fathers tell their sons never to do masturbate, that is completely wrong of them to say that. IF the son does not masturbate then he will have many wet dreams and far worse than that he will get awkward erections at times when he is not expecting his penis to go erect. Just a few examples that I have read regarding that fact here on the Internet
1 A boy was singing in his church choir and got a erection as a result of never masturbating, he admitted that it was very embarrassing for him and he started to masturbate in a regular way, to heck for what his father had told him, anyway he had no more embarrassing erections.
2 Another boy did not want to masturbate because his religious parents told him that "it was a sin" but he kept having erections at awkward times, especially at school either in shorts or swimming trunks and everyone noticed, he was advised to start masturbating regularly which he did and the embarrassing erections stopped.
I have NEVER had embarrassing erections at any time, to be honest with you my parents never discussed that with me, I just masturbated frequently during my teens, its a pity in a way that I have only had one wet dream in my life, that was because I did not masturbate for 2 weeks when I was 16, this was due to stress at work, but soon after I got a new job, less stressful and resumed my frequent masturbating with no more wet dreams