At first, i hate saying this but i'm not american, so sorry for my english vocabulary and mistakes.
I'm 17 and i've been dating a girl for 3 months now. I have a 4.5 inches penis, and i'm really unconfident with it, though i don't externalize it. She is a virgin, though i think that sometimes she really wants to have sex with me. The problem is, when she comes at my house she never does anything with me if touch her. She used to touch me, not masturbating until i reach orgasm or anything, but it was good anyway. But now i just think she does not aspire anything sexually, as if we are not going anywhere. I think a relationship can last not only if the lovers like each other, but based on something else, like cultural compatility or... sex! It's hard because i like her, she's polite and nice, but she isn't very clever. I read and study a lot about literature, philosophy and art, and sometimes i feel intellectually castrated when i'm around her. She even tries reading some books i read (last week she bought Ulisses, and i know she will never finish it), but it's not the same thing...
From this i've been thinking about our moral submission, as she is a religious person and i'm not, and how erotism has given way to technique... Sex isn't attractive as a joyful, sensual moment. It aims only for a mechanical orgasm... I'm kind of disappointed with the idea i always had about it.
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If she leaves you because you have small penis. You do not want to be in a relation with her. It will be the best thing.
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Hi Woody,
You aren't that small. Normal is 5 - 5 1/2" and you can grow into your early 20's. It's not the size that matters anyways, it's what you do with it.
There is nothing wrong with either of you because nothing sexual is happening. Quite frankly, once you do put sex into a relationship it changes, significantly. You like her, she must like you, she's trying to share a common interest. Why does it need to be sexual now?
Can't a male have a female for a friend, without sex? Can't a female have a male for a friend?
Sex and "making love" are very different things. One is as you say "mechanical" the other, is an art form in itself.
Perhaps you should sit down with her and ask her where your relationship is going. Be honest and open about your concerns with her. If the relationship doesn't work, move on. It happens.
A lot of people would be very happy to have found out after three months that they weren't really compatible.
Good luck.
You aren't that small. Normal is 5 - 5 1/2" and you can grow into your early 20's. It's not the size that matters anyways, it's what you do with it.
There is nothing wrong with either of you because nothing sexual is happening. Quite frankly, once you do put sex into a relationship it changes, significantly. You like her, she must like you, she's trying to share a common interest. Why does it need to be sexual now?
Can't a male have a female for a friend, without sex? Can't a female have a male for a friend?
Sex and "making love" are very different things. One is as you say "mechanical" the other, is an art form in itself.
Perhaps you should sit down with her and ask her where your relationship is going. Be honest and open about your concerns with her. If the relationship doesn't work, move on. It happens.
A lot of people would be very happy to have found out after three months that they weren't really compatible.
Good luck.
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Don't really have anytin to say cos medic-dan has said it all. Just relax u aint small and discuss your relationship with her what u both expect out of it.
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Hello medic-dan, are u on facebook? Pls send me your fb name lemme add u. There are some questions I don't wanna publicize. Thanks bro.
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