Pregnancy From Precum + Additional Things

Hi Haze,

i totally disagree.. with medic dan not all girls have 28 day cycles and just because you do does not mean you will ovulate at the same time every month this girl in question could have ilregular periods you dont know it wasnt stated and why say if she is he is unlikely the father?? just putting doubt in his head that didnt need to be there. poor girl if she is and the father playing the medic dan said it cant be mine card..

ohkay haze.. this is what i think.. you had unprotected sex so there is a possibility she got pregnant. but by the sound of it her life is very stressful and that may have put her cycle out of wack... you just have to play the waiting game..

Kim,

I appreciate your opinion and ask that you reread my post.

I specifically state "she'd have about a 28 day cycle" and "ovulate between about days 11-16 of her cycle". Of course it varies. I'm not specific and saying that she has a 28 day cycle or when she ovulates.

Still, in most cases the timing would be poor for pregnancy to occur. The egg most likely would not be viable during the first week of June and therefore he likely could not be the father. Note that I said "likely not the father."

I never told him he isn't the father. I said "unlikely."

All of this is true.

What doubt wasn't there to begin with? He's questioning precum getting her pregnant.

From your perspective it's putting doubt in his head. From mine it's reassurance that maybe she's not pregnant.

Regardless, we both say the same thing:

Me: "She needs to take a home test. Stress, anxiety, medications, all that can make her late. A woman can also miss her period occasionally."

You:"you had unprotected sex so there is a possibility she got pregnant. but by the sound of it her life is very stressful and that may have put her cycle out of wack... you just have to play the waiting game."

I am certainly saddened to hear that the girl tried to commit suicide. Hopefully, by now she has been able to talk with a sympathetic and caring professional.

I agree that weed gives you little to no protection in terms of getting someone pregnant. A responsible ( and cautious)  approach to any sexual encounter is a surer way to go. Think of your penis as a LOADED GUN, and use it accordingly.

As to your question --

It is true that precum CAN include some sperm, especially if you have been stimulated for a while, or are approaching a second ejaculation and you haven't urinated between them to "clear the system" so to speak. But putting yourself inside her, even if you're SURE it's only precum coming out of you, the chances ARE considerably greater that sperm could be present. It depends on a number of factors -- how long and how deep you were inside her, were you able to control your body's pre-orgasmic contractions, and how close were you to cumming before you pulled out, did you ejaculate immediately once you were outside her body?

That said, there are all kinds of hazards and roadblocks for the sperm to reach their target (which is why you ejaculate so many of them each time you cum, regardless of the weed); the miniscule number that might possibly be in your precum would literally have an "uphill" battle to make her pregnant. The interior environment of her vagina is designed to actually make it hard for sperm to survive very long. This is kind of an elegant method of ensuring that only the strongest, healthiest, and most vigorous sperm get to the target.

SHORT ANSWER: it is unlikely that you could have gotten her pregnant. I hope you were able to follow up with her to at least let her know you cared. Good Luck -- to both of you!