Hey there
This is an incredibly sensitive area for me, but I need to seek help..
I'm turning 20 in 2months, and I have literally little to no body hair. I have developed pubic and facial hair, but that's it.
I'm about 5"12ish (Shorter than most men in my family tbh, even my 15 year old brother is my height already) and I have other features that seem developed like an adam's apple, etc
Now, my main worry above all is my penis. its about 4inches erect and as far as I know, 5.5inches is the average in my country. The funny thing is that in terms of girth, I'm quite literally the average/slightly above average (About 5 -> 5.5inches), its just my length that worries me..
Now, I'll admit, I can a bit overweight (90kg for a 5"12 male)(Losing weight atm, strict diet, hopefully I can gain some size through fat loss (You lose fat in the pubic area, I believe)), but I am a bit worried my final hits of testesterone may be hitting me too late or may never come >:
What do you guys think? I would REALLY appreciate the help, should I seek help or be patient and wait?
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Hey there I understand your frustration and concern and I know it is extreamly stressfull for you. When did you start going through puberty and how big are your testicles?
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Thanks for the reply man !
Im not sure when I started puberty, I don't really pay attention to those things..
I guess I started my growth spurt at 17ish, touching myself at like.. 14/15? Masturbating at 15/16ish, Pubic hair at like.. 15ish? Idk lol
As for the size of my testicles.. Well I guess I can roughly measure its diameter at 3inches, and height of roughly 2inches (Its a egg shape so yh lol) (Wasnt easy to measure)
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I know it's not the easiest to measure your testicles but you did fine. He average size for adult testicles is about 2.5x2.5x4 cm. if you started getting pubic hair around 15 then you sound like a bit of a late bloomer ( which isn't bad inward one myself.) it can be frustrating especially around your peers but things generally work themselves out. Did you say you are able to ejaculate? I think you will be fine you can always have blood tests done to test your hormone levels
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Thanks again!
Urmmh, As said Ive been masturbating properly since.. 15ish? I also meant I could ejaculate when I said masturbate
And to be honest, it really isnt that frustrating, like Ive had remarks from female mates (Lets call me Harry) "Harry, do you shave your legs?" in a joking sorta way and we would laugh it all off and continue chilling (I just turned 19 when this remark was made).
Like quite honestly it hasn't really embarrassed me in any way.
HOWEVER, my penis size is what sometimes haunts my dreams. The day that I get a comment from either sex about it, during sex or whatever, is the day I completely lose it (Yeah, still a virgin, I've had my experience with girls (Making out, sleeping with, etc), but I've never got to sex, in a way I was too scared)
Ive read on loads of places that as long as you have some foreplay and put the work in, I can easily pleasure a female, but I just can't help but feel low on confidence over the area
So do you reckon it's possible for me to visit a GP (Doctor in the UK), say for some reason I believe I have "hormonal imbalances", have a blood test done, then get prescribed testosterone?
Thank you very much for your help soo far btw, I really appreciate it!
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You're very welcome penis size is something that is a concern for many of us guys think you could be embarrassing when you're trying to be in the bedroom when you're in the locker room other guys because from our perspective it looks like most other people are bigger than us. I can give you some more advice and hopefully help boost your confidence if you let me know your penis size both the erect and Flacccid And yea you can schedule an appointment with your doctor to have your Harlem Avenue is Jack just tell them you feel less developed than your peers
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"To have your harlem avenue is Jack"? Sorry mate I don't really understand haha
Preferably, even with a health professional, I would like to say I have hormonal imbalances as opposed to outwardly admitting my underdeveloped penis, unless I have no other choice I would prefer this
As for the length of my penis, I have measured it and it is 4" fully erect (Maybe 4.1" on a good day) and close to 2" flaccid (In a comfortably warm room, depending on temperature it can shrink down to 1" even)
As said before, my girth remains in good shape, with it being little over 5.5" when I'm fully erect
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EDIT: Also, just another added observation:
My foreskin doesn't peel back when I'm fully erect; infact, there seems to be a tiny bit of excess foreskin at the end of my fully erect penis
My foreskin doesn't peel back when I'm fully erect; infact, there seems to be a tiny bit of excess foreskin at the end of my fully erect penis
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LOL sorry for The Text that you didn't understand I did not proofread before I send this message and a voice recognition misspelled what I was saying. I meant to say you can see a doctor to get your hormone levels checked..... And I would just tell them you feel like you have an imbalance. The fact you were a little bit of a late bloomer means that your penis still has time to grow. Do You have any idea how big your brother or your dad penis is? Remember the average size for an adult male in about 5 to 6 inches so you're not too far off
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Haha no probs mate
When you say ask to get my hormone levels checked, what would my excuse be to the doctor (To hide my problem down there?)
Like Its quite apparent my body is lacking in hair when you pay attention to it, but why else would I need to have a hormone levels check ? Preferably I would like to be prescribed some form of medicine that helps with my body hair, but also promotes growth in my penis
And Im not sure about the size of my brother's or dad's penises, not sure how to find out tbh haha
Thanks again !
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Yea it can be hard / ackward to bring up that conversation with you brother or dad. As far as an excuse the fact that you look so young and lack of body hair for your age should be reason enough for testing but just be honnest if it comes to it. Doctors hear and see a lot of stuff you won't surprise him/ her it will be fine
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Oh yeah good point, I'll probably act insecure about my body hair and ask for a hormonal test and see where that takes me, cheers bud! Ill let you know how it goes
Also: This is out of curiosity, but what if my final bits of hormones don't ever naturally come? I know Ive got little over a year, but I'm anxious that it may never come
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Well hormones are something that are constantly produces just in different amounts so ya not like there's a little vial of testosterone or androgen in your body and it gets dumped out then it's gone. Your body will continue to produce them just not in as high of concentration as when you go through puberty
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What I meant is, will there be a point without the use of external drugs that my final growth will occur?
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Yea there could be but I wouldn't wait for that.
At your age your hormones are going to start settling down. So I would check them soon
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