Alright I'll try to be as detailed as possible, I've been seeing this girl for about a month and a half now and we've been having sex for all of that time, but recently I haven't been able to maintain or even really get an erection..
This is really concerning to me because I haven't had this problem with her at all, I mean I had the EXACT OPPOSITE problem where I'd constantly have an erection around her all the time. I'd get one from just kissing, touching a little, maybe even wrestling around a little bit, it got to the point where it was kinda of embarrassing and she'd be like "omg why are you excited for" in a playful way..
I've been up and done though with my sex, meaning at first it would take me forever to cum, then I worked through that and it was the opposite I was cumming to quick and recently I found a happy medium between the two that is until last Sunday......
We were having sex when out of nowhere I slipped out and went soft, I chalked it up to the fact that I had a nauseous stomach (that started the night before) and figured that was te reason I lost it and couldn't really get it back up...
Last night was my first time seeing her SINCE Sunday, when I got there we were kissing/touching and my penis did get hard during that for a bit.. Then the clothes came off and it happened all over again except this time I was able to maintain enough of an erection for her to get on top and make me cum although it was NOWHERE CLOSE to what it has been before so I was still disappointed.. We waited about an hour until we started messing around again, this time she started off with giving me head and I maintained a soft erection but when I was starting to lose it I told her to hand me a condom and asked her to get on top only this time it didn't last long and it ended up slipping out..
I'm setting up an appointment with my doc tomorrow but wanted to see if this board could help at all because I'm stressing bad over this and I'm really worried ecspecially going from one end of the spectrum to the complete opposite (always hard to can't even maintain)
Thanks
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dude chill out i had a pretty similar experience a while back turns out it was just anxiety. cool it on the stimulants and when its that time clear your mind and think only of what you want to do to her. To get past this get in the same mindset as when masterbating nothing on your mind but getting a nut not her plaesure or anything i know it sounds kind of selfish but if it makes it work you'll both be happier and once you reach a certain comfort level back to normal or better
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Hi, Chibulls.
I've had nearly the exact same problems you have been experiencing. It sucks, but you have to address the problem eventually.
I've tried various pills to help maintain an erection, although they work short-term, I definitely don't want to become reliant on pills. And, I've heard so many horror stories.
I always check out this website before buying any products when it comes to erection problems - www.ed-report.com. My personal favourite is beating erectile dysfunction guide because it discusses in depth methods of curing ED. It talks about simple proven methods to help solve ED. I wish I had found it sooner.
I've had nearly the exact same problems you have been experiencing. It sucks, but you have to address the problem eventually.
I've tried various pills to help maintain an erection, although they work short-term, I definitely don't want to become reliant on pills. And, I've heard so many horror stories.
I always check out this website before buying any products when it comes to erection problems - www.ed-report.com. My personal favourite is beating erectile dysfunction guide because it discusses in depth methods of curing ED. It talks about simple proven methods to help solve ED. I wish I had found it sooner.
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what helps me: 1. smoke weed 2. increase the bodys testosterone levels 3. dont have a girlfriend, to be honest the 3rd one works best for me personally but if your still having issues take your pic
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