Ok so when me and my girlfriend are making out and that its fine and there but when we seem to take things further it goes and if we try to have sex she has to suck on it first to get it hard enough to get in but sometimes when going to put it in it will go.
Please help this has never happened to me before and is abit of a nightmare tbh, i'm 19 btw.
Please help this has never happened to me before and is abit of a nightmare tbh, i'm 19 btw.
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this sounds way more like a mental thing than a physical thing...are you scared by something or having greater emotions ie love or something else weird in your life...sometimes just stress... and then theres alway the cycle of it happening the first time and each additional time its because you are still feeling embarassment by the first time...mind over matter....just clear your head communicate and loose yourself in the forplay and aproach it with a no worries attitude
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if you are used to masturbating but havent had intercourse much (or recently) then it could simply be that you are not used to that stimulation. men tend to grip their penis harder than the vaginal muscles can, so until you are used to intercourse, there may be a bit of stop and go. its normal.
and as the other reply said, could be mental. if you are concerned about whether you will please her, or even worried that you wont be able to maintain an erection, the stress will make it harder to.
my boyfriend used to have that problem, but once he realized that he DOES please me, and that i dont at all mind oral/manual while hes flaccid, he was able to maintain the erection for longer. after a few times he got used to how i feel, and havent had a problem since.
and as the other reply said, could be mental. if you are concerned about whether you will please her, or even worried that you wont be able to maintain an erection, the stress will make it harder to.
my boyfriend used to have that problem, but once he realized that he DOES please me, and that i dont at all mind oral/manual while hes flaccid, he was able to maintain the erection for longer. after a few times he got used to how i feel, and havent had a problem since.
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