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Okay so I've been with my bf for 6 years, have a 2 year old son , we've had 5 3somes, two with my best friends, and we had one with my best friend for the 3erd time, I was on my period and wasn't much involved, yes we kissed and I ate her out , so on and so on, just didn't have sex... but it was my idea, what turns me on is him having sex with another woman in front of me, giving her everything I get , every day and it turns me on. After it was done, we went to bed, I slept in the middle of them two, he was putting him arm over me, but touching her and holding her hand while he thought I was sleeping ... I guess he was still turned on but that's very disrespectful towards me... So I freaked out, he was sorry and felt awful and knew he was wrong ... But I would love to know from a guy who's been in a 3some with his gf n her best friend , how did you feel after? Did you want to cheat behind your woman's back? Did you try and contact her, do you think about f*****g her or and when you f**k your gf ? I just wanna know what goes on in the mans brain afterwards, should I be worried ?

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Personally, I think the 3some did exactly what it was suppose to do especially as it involved your bf, never get involved with some so close to you as this will probably kill a friendship with your thoughts (you can't help it you are female).  Yes, you are close and share everything with your bf but now your boyfriend too?  I think that's taking it too far, only my personal opinion though. 

Now that your boyfriend agrees with the handholding and you are having 'jealousy' thoughts now are you wanting to continue to break this 3some off.  If you break it off, do you think your friendship would continue with your bf and do you think you could remain bf's?  Do you think they would cheat on you or do you think you would always think of that?

Do you both (you and your boyfriend) not get enough of each other intimately that you need to include others in your sex life?  Was it you that first suggested or him?

Anyways, I think that I have given you enough to think about, hope I haven't offended you, I'm just trying to understand and get you to think about as well.  Good luck and hope we can chat some more, LQ420

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My boyfriend and I have a really good communication , he's insured me that it's just sex and I am his everything and he will never break my heart and always wants to keep his family together , he knows how I'm feeling , in usually perfectly fine the next day, it's just after the fact after having sex, while I was pretending to sleep he was touching her and holding her hand and that upsets me and he says he feels like sh*t and he is terribly sorry.. I just don't know what to think of it...
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And we do have really great sex all the time, the sex isn't the problem , we just agree that we are young and want to spend the rest of our lives together , lets experience and have fun together .
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Really happy to hear that you have good communication in your relationship as that  is key to a strong and firm foundation in your relationship.  And while you are young is the time to explore and see what you like and don't like but just remember your 2 year old is coming to the age where questions are bound to happen and they see and know more than what you know, I have an almost 3 year old and she is as smart as whip too smart.

Like I said I wouldn't be happy about the handholding either only because I broke with my hubby when he was my boyfriend and he was 'friends' with this girl and I found them hugging a few times and I said enough, I find that one more time and I turn around and walk out, that's exactly what I did.  One year later we were back together but it took a lot of work for him to get me back, so just be careful.  Tread carefully and lightly, I'm glad it's out in the open and that he is aware that you know.

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