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so.... I've been having problems with my penis for about two months... I finally got past the embarrassment and asked my parents to take me to the doctor. After he examined me he told me that I have phimosis... I've had this once before when I was around 8 or 10 but it went away with hardly any effort. I am now 17 and it's giving me too much problems... the doctor suggested circumcision but I'm afraid to have that done. my foreskin covers my penis completely (as it always has) I am able to pull it back so that the head of the penis is entirely out... I have been given cream and that didn't work. Then this morning I woke up and then skin of my penis was like... inside out... and I couldn't get it back to normal... after I stopped panicking I decided to go to the hospital. When I arrived the doctor was able to fix it for me and I was relieved that it was back to normal. but this isn't the first time that the skin has done this... every time that this happened it was during sleep. so now I am afraid to sleep... when I go to sleep the foreskin is normal but sometimes (Not always) when I wake up the skin is inside out and it scares me. sometimes I can fix it myself but other times (Like this morning) I couldn't. Also I use to masturbate about 3-4 times a week but I stopped when my condition worsened... I'm afraid to masturbate because the skin isn't 100% healed and I'm afraid it will get stuck during masturbation therefore causing panic... it's been about a week since I've masturbated and because of this I have been having "Wet dreams" which isn't very pleasant... I guess what I'm asking here is... is this normal? for my skin to fold itself inside out during my sleep? I think that happens because I have erections during my sleep... but before I had this condition I always had erections in my sleep and this never happened before... I've been having excessive erections during sleep and awake but I think that's due to lack of masturbation... What should I do? eventually I'm going to have to masturbate again at some point in my life but as of right now im just freaked out... like I said im afraid that the foreskin will get stuck like that... I apologize for such a long message but I'm just really worried... and Im starting to loose sleep over this... thank you to anyone who takes the time to read this and I hope someone will be able to help me and give me some peace of mind.

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Kirby,

just take a step or two back and relax for a second alright?... :-) i'm pretty sure i have an idea of what is going on but i'm packing for Canada and have to get a lot of stuff done before 4 tonight. im in the NIU Drumline and we are going with the marching band and football team to toranto to play in the international bowl. i will explain more later on this evening.

it will be alright so just don't freak out on me alright 8)

talk to you later this evening
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Ok... I'll try to calm down a bit but I tend to panic with things like this... I started taking the medication that the doctor prescribed but I don't know if it's working... today I can only pull the foreskin about half way... but two days ago I could pull it back all the way... I'm gonna take a hot shower in a few minutes to see if that'll help loosen the skin then I'm gonna try and pull it back all the way. Thanks for replying :-D I'm already a little bit calmer knowing I have someone out there that will take the time to help me so thank you :-)
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well try this again... i almost had my lengthy post done and somehow i clicked something and lost the whole post >;).

I feel ya. when ever something goes wrong with our parts it is always nerve wraking. com on i mean they are what makes us who we are as men.

Anyways, i believe what is happening is that you probably had a tight forsking then it grew/loosened some but then your penis grew some more and now it is tight again. (when did you hit puberty?) Night time erections are normal and there is nothing we can do to prevent them. what probably happens in your case is that you get an erection causing the forsking to retract some then you move or rub on something (unknowingly) and it causes the forskin to slip over the head of the penis. because your forskin is tight it then get stuck behing there since there is sort of a rim on the head of the penis called the corona.

the thing you need to becareful of is a condition calle paraphimosis this is a condition where the forskin gets stuck behind the glands (head) and can not be pulled back over. the head the can start to swell do to lack of circulation and cause the head of the penis to die. if this happens try to lube up the head of the penis and forskin with corn huskers lotion, baby oil or any type of personal lubricant such as KY jelly. (i would keep some type of lube on hand near your bed or in the bathroom) then slowly and genty try to work the forskin back over.
as for the streatching bambie has a very good method and i will try to paraphrase it.

first start off with a nice hot shower or bath. then gently pull the forskin over the head of the penis. it should feel tight but not hurt or burn. hold for about 20-30 seconds and relax do this for about 10-15 min. it may help to rub some olive oil or personal lubricant on the penis to help it slide.
it will probably take 2-3 weeks to totaly streatch your forsking to where it will easily slide over your erect penis so just be patient.

also DO NOT DO THIS WHEN YOU HAVE AN ERECTION it could cause damage to your forksin. unless of course your forskin slides easily over the head when you are not erect. also be sure to go slow and not overdo it.

i hope this helps alieviate some of your worries. please let me know if you have any more questions or concerns
you can always private message me if there is anything you want to discuss more privatley
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Umm I have no idea how to private message... I'm still getting used to this site lol and I hit puberty kinda early... I was around 12 or 13 but my two older brothers hit puberty around the same age... I don't know what the normal age is to hit puberty but we are Brazilian so maybe we hit puberty faster? I don't know lol and I was never able to pull the foreskin over my penis when I had an erection... nor did I feel the need to... its very uncomfortable... however I was always able to pull the foreskin over my penis when I did not have an erection... this is a very hard subject for me to talk about and I usually keep it private... it's a little embarrassing... but it seems I get less erections in my sleep and less wet dreams when I masturbate (again, its kinda hard for me to talk about this... especially with a doctor) so two days ago I masturbated so it would prevent wet dreams and the foreskin getting stuck ect. and in the middle of me "Finishing up" I got a cramp on the head of my penis... it was very uncomfortable. you know the feeling you get when you stretch your arm or your leg to far and the muscle kinda "pops" out of place? well that's sorta how it felt. I refuse to masturbate because I'm afraid that'll happen again and what if it gets stuck or something? I can't imagine what I would do... it's very frightening. I'm starting think that the doctor my have diagnosed me with the wrong condition... because this isn't normal behavior... is it? ever since then my penis has been feeling uncomfortable and sometimes I'll get slight pain. but in only lasts for a few seconds. I am not very happy :-( it seems that when I get rid of one problem another one starts... first I had kidney stones then I got hemorrhoids (Which I still have and has been getting worse) and now this... what next? I'm just tired of always being sick.... my body is a walking garbage can... at least that's how I see it since I'm always sick... I just wish my body was back to normal... and sometimes I think "What if I'm never back to normal? what if this problem stays?" *Sigh* I get very depressed at times... I just want all of these things to go away... Sorry for the long message and thank you for replying :-) it's nice having at least one person I can talk to even if they are across the world... I'm currently in Florida :p
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Kirby...

first off since this is such a hard issue to talk about (even though it shouldn't be ;-) ) to private message you need to go to the navagation section of the home page after you sign in. then find the phrase "no new messages" click on that and it will bring you to an email like page. there you can search for or put on a user name. for instance for me just type in Biomajor'10 then you type the message like normal and send. then i will be the only one who can read toes posts and it will not be publically viewed... i am from the states so im not quite acrost the world... :-) you can try the private message to see if it works :-) good luck and you just need to streatch the forskin out a bit it will be fine. please dont let youself get bogged down with numorous "little" problems. also if you do need to see a doctor, things like this are no different to them than taking a blood presure or listening to a heart.

12-13 is the average age to start puberty so no worries there. it is good that you can at least retract your forskin when not erect. do you wash it regularly?

let me know and we can continue helping you from there
Good luck. just relax you will be fine. o and Happy New Years (im in Canada now until the 3rd with the marching band and foot bal team. we are playing in the intenational bowel on the 2nd) It should be on ESPN. (this has nothing to do with your issues but thought i would just mention it.
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You better watch out.
I heard Bambi's one of the cheerleaders.
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haha i know somehow shel figure out who i am and snipe me... so i dont infringeon her terratorie lol it should be fun last night was a blast!!
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If it's on ESPN I'll try to watch it.
What time is it on?
Be sure to wave to us.
Are you in the band?
I was in the band in high school, played trumpet.
Old hot lips, ya know.
I played in the marching band for 9 football seasons.
I started in the junior band in the 6th grade but they pulled some of us up to the senior band for football season. I went into the senior band in 7th grade.

The year I graduated they lost over half the band so between my class and the class before me they only had about 15% of the band left. That fall, me and another solo trumpet player were driving through the mountains one weekend when we drove through a town where our high school was playing football. Of course we dropped in and headed for the band. A trumpet player never goes anywhere without his trumpet and ours were in the trunk of my car. The director asked us to play in the stands with them and teach the new players the trumpet calls we used to play during games. After the game he asked us of we would like to join the band for the football season because he was really short on players. The other guy couldn't because of his job but I played with the band for two football seasons after I graduated. So I played in the high school band for 9 years.

When I was in the army in Georgia, President Eisenhower used to come to Augusta to play golf almost every weekend. Being an old general, protocol required him to come over to say "hi", so we had to march in review for him every Saturday. They have a band playing while we march by but the troops don't march to the music. After spending 9 years in a marching band I had a b***h of a time marching in time to the sergeant who was calling cadence. The feet automatically go to the bass drum as soon as you can hear it.
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yea its on ESPN 2 i believe... it starts at 12pm. i play bass 6 (biggest beast out there) XD we will be plaing loud and proud so if you dont see us you will sure hear us. we are the red and white colors..... cool let me know if you see us
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gotcha, I'll be there
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International Bowl: Northern Illinois v South Florida??

Have to find a stream, I do like a bit of football. It is football right?
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I guess the TV producers don't share my interest in half time shows or bands.
I haven't seen even a glimpse of anything musical.
They filled the half time slot with commercials and football replays/reruns.
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Nah all I saw was some heavily armoured blokes throwing a ball about and falling over. I watched the superbowl final last year, that was good and was expecting the same :-( .

And no music either, appalling coverage there, would have been better than the whole game.
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yes it is football.. and it was
NIU vs SFU. unfourtunatly we lost i pass pretty dissappointed but the band did great so i cant complain tooo much.
i talked to some people and apparently we were on VERY little but the normally don't show the halftime shows anyways. if they did i think i would watch a lot more football :-)

o well it was still a lot of fun
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