Hi.When I was younger I used to be freaked out by lesbians. I would always wonder why they liked each other I couldn't seem to understand, it just for some reason weirded me out like I know this is stupid but I would always think they wanted to kiss me and wrong. Trust me I have nothing wrong with lesbians and if I am I am, my parents are also totally cool with it so thats never the issue I just want to know. When I was 13 I saw Lesbian porn I thought it was wrong of me to watch but I was really interested because I knew I shouldn't watch this like its gross and wrong. I than realized that I was actually turned on maybe by the wrongness but I don't know. I wasn't obsessed with it and not every time I watched would I get turned on by Lesbian porn but it was something that was enough for me to realize. I also had dreams where I would get turned on by kissing girls. They happened more when I was 15, but I still have them every once in a while, I'm 16. I, however, am no longer turned on by lesbian porn at all or kissing or even the idea of lesbians. i do think the idea is wronger than being with a guy and therefore dirtier and possibly sexier. also when I look at girls bodies sometimes I have an odd sensation, i know its not a turn on but I'm not sure if its just being uncomfortable or maybe my body saying I think this girl is hot. i have only had crushes on boys and when around boys I like I am sexully attracted to them, but when a girl touches me I feel something but i m not quite sure what, I'm usually very tense but the feeling feels nice and it seems like it could be me getting wet. any answers?
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Why do you want to put a label on your sexuality at such a young age? You have years to experiment & find out what label you eventually want to wear!
Firstly, feeling turned on by two consenting adults having sex or 'playing-around' is perfectly normal at age 13, 14, 15, etc. Doesn't matter whether it's lesbian porn or heterosexual porn- you're an adolescent- which mean's your sexual hormones are going haywire. Hence, I ask "Why do you want to put a label on it?" Your head doesn't have to conform to what is making your body tingle...it just means you're a hot-blooded sexually peaking teen- and that's absolutely nothing to be ashamed of!
Secondly- it sounds like you are conflicted by social sexual expectations and your developing sexual feelings. Why is lesbian sex 'wrongness'? And a female dreaming about lesbian sex is more symbolic of love for one's self & discovery of a sexual awakening , rather than a sexual inclination towards other women.
You are going through a sexually confussing time- that's perfectly normal! You're only 16, after all. Perhaps you should ease up on yourself and keep your mind open to new- and safe- experiences, rather than label it and quickly think that you 'are' a particular sexuality.
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It is normal. I went through the same thing in my youth as have almost all my friends. To see girls as sexy is not wrong, we are sexy! Straight porn is really gross to me but lesbian porn is sensual and sweet. It may just be the sensuality of it, we as females are more attracted to sensual things. (Well most girls) I have kissed girls and it was nothing to me, but I do find myself attracted to girls but not in a sexual way. I just think they are pretty or have a really nice body. And the thought of the 'taboo' ness of it could be a turn on like any thing else that is supposed to be wrong. Don't worry about it so much and if you are Bi accept it and see if it is really want you want in a few years or it may just be hormones and all the Bi sexual things that are out there.
just be happy.
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