Okay um well .. i need advice .. i had my period last month? like it wasnt really a period tho it was like spotting on and off for 3 days .. then stoped .. and i havent got it yet this month .. my periods have been diffrent all the time because of my birth control but i kinda stoped taking it because i then formed a lump in my boob .. anyways .. long story short i stoped taking it .. and well i thought it stayed in ur system for a while .. but and this month i havnet got my period yet WAT DO I DO??? i really dont want a baby right now i really dont i already have a almost 2 year old! .. and my n my bvf are not on good terms arguing n stuff .. what should i do? take a test or like wait and see because im freaking out .. :(