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lemme tell you a little secret, all of these people are either lying or never done it before in their lives except for a few, i know it hurts but you'll be happy in the end.... do the following:
1. Watch something like porn or read something erotic... it helps a lot!
2. start by caressing your body, (fondling your breast or rubbing your side...whatever feels nice... Explore! just don't put your hand below your belly button!)
3. Do this as long as you want (20 minutes at least) then slowly drag one hand down towards there and start circling around the opening but don't go in yet!
4. keep caressing and circling until it gets to an exiting point in the video or story
5 when it gets to that point use your non-dominate hand and start rubbing your clit
6.You now will focus on the story/ porn and clit without thinking of ANYTHING else and slowly (but not too slow) stick your finger in your vag. Until you can't go any farther!
7.when you pull your finger out it might be painful and you might bleed a little, but now the next time you do it it wont hurt ANYMORE!
secret tip: When i first started I was so scared that it would hurt or i wouldn't be able to do it but when I did it hurt like H*ll! I was crying and my mom came in and said that it hurt because nothing has ever gone in there before and it was just my vag. stretching and my hymen braking.... I decided that there had to be another way... so for about maybe 5 months I fingered my butt and it was weird at first butt, (pun intended) when I tried the real thing after doing that fingering was A LOT better! and it barley even hurt. Ever since i can do it without having any pain! So stop being scared and just DO IT and you can do it whenever you want again without pain for the rest of your life! 

Good luck, xx

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I cant fill anything when having sex. It hurts when I masturbate what do I do?
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I ve gotten myself wet even when i was a virgin, buf once i tried fingering myself and i actually liked it. A month ago i had sex for the first time and he fingered me. It felt goodbut after we had sex i had non stop bleeding. Now i try fingering myself and i cant im to scared.
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That's a bit too young for sex..
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You're not the only one.
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PENIS JFJFJF JF JGF
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Omg same. I came (pardon the pun) because I have the same problem. I'm 15, yes I have my period but whenever I try and finger myself I can only get one finger in and it's very tight and just holding it in there hurts me never mind moving it back and forwards uncomfortably :( I guess I have never tried it when in the mood (I'm more of a clitoris girl) so maybe I should try it watching something erotic?? Anyways glad I'm not alone. I'm absolutely terrified of a guy getting close cause I don't want to embarrass myself and him when I'm in agonising pain.
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try watching porn or something that will turn you on to loosen up first

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I did it and I am 13 what I did
Is that I play with my boobs then start going around my clit then go in
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I'm 13 and I fingered myself a few times but it still hurts and I don't wanna ask my mum for a viborator what should I do
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I have the same problem. I have inserted a finger & an old makeup brush handle into me before but it wasn't pleasurable at all. I've tried inserting a finger again but it feels like there's something in the way (the skin) & I can't seem to push past it. It's uncomfortable & hurts a little.
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its fine to feel that way there is no need to feel ashamed it hurts everyone at first just start slow and make sure ur comfortable with it and alos make sure ur entering the right hole. hope this helps x
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Did you try again? Does it still hurt? Did you go see a gyno? What did they say? I have the same problem & it makes me feel uncomfortable to try seek help.
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I've done that but it hurts if I poke the walls
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Hold on let me get this straight you have had sex at 14?
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