CAN'T GET AN ERECTION WHEN IM WITH MY GIRLFRIEND

U just get relaxed first , if u r in too much stress take a quick bath then start with orally like kissing touching etc.

I'm a 26 year old man I just got out a long term relationship about 4 months ago.
I know I'm over my ex and all. I recently started dating some girl I met from work she is a bomb shell. The first time we tried hooking up I couldn't get hard but we did have a few to many drinks before hand. So I thought it was because of the alcohol. The other day she came over we were both sober.
We were fulling around on my bed so things started getting pretty hot. So I was hard already she was playing with my penis but when it was time to put on the condom my erection dies off rite away its very frustrating now. Now she really thinks I don't find her sexually attractive which is not true I really do find her very attractive. One thing I notice is that when we are getting ready to do the deed I just start thinking about the last time I couldn't get hard and I loose focus. So I thought I probably had a problem down there or something. So I called my ex she came over and we started fulling around and my penis got hard and I was able to have sex but we didn't use a condom because when we were together we never use one. Like I said in the beginning I'm over my ex I just know I am. So I don't if maybe it could be that I'm not use to wearing a condom I just don't know what to think of it. The new girl I'm dating like I said she's a bomb shell. If anyone out there can help me out or has experience something similar I would appreciate a reply or something this is driving me crazy.

I need some help, my girlfriend and I have been having sex a lot the past 2 months, but recently I've had trouble staying hard. I've gotten to the point where I get hard, but as soon as we are about to have sex I get soft. I just don't know why this is happening cause I'm 18, and I've had sex many times without having a problem.

Are you the one putting on the condom?

You should have your gf get you hard and keep playing with you while she puts on the condom.

You lot 16-20, I'm 14 and I can get mine up with her touching it or not

Hey guys i got a long story but i need some opions and help. So lets start off with my gf i love her so much i just turned 16 so on my birthday we came to my houseno parents where home so it started with making out then got on to turn on and touching and then cloths off and such on but it was my first time ima virgin my problem I couldn't get An erection it was a semi hard not even so then i thought i got problem im worry alot im like omg this is embarrassing witch it is. So I couldnt get it up i was so embarsed but im trying to know why cause i was very nervouse it was my first time and i wasent relaxed and i was afriad someone would come into the house so idk why i cant get it up. But a couple days later me and her where on couch we started teasing each other and ended up i started pleasureing her with my finger and she started giving me a ha****b but this tims my penis was a nicr semi hard it was harder this time then last time. But i know it wasent fully hard and would get any harder. So im really worry like is there something wron with me or what like am i really nervous idk its getting on my nerves. Ause it's embarrassing and im scared what she will think. I mastered prob 1 time a day for atleast the last year now do idk if its that like porn sites idk please help me i need this figured out

thats my problem too im 41, all i want is to have a child with my wife ,i will follow your advice, thank you

Thanks everyone for sharing there stories. I am 24 years and have also had problems getting erection with women. Last night I was with this girl. I found her really attractive we started fooling around and I got totally aroused. My penis got rock hard and I really wanted her. When she gave me the green light to have sex with her I freaked out. My penis went from hard to limp in seconds after I put on my condom. This isn't the first time it has happened so. This problem just keeps repeating itself, it's really annoying. Because when I was younger I was able to have sex with my gf all the time. I have not watched porn for about 4 months. Hoping that it would help me stay hard but it has not helped me so far :(. In earlier posts I read meditation might help. That is what I will try now because when I masterbate I am able to get full erections. Anyone have any more advise on this issue?

Ya boys im with ya. I just hooked up with a girl and looked up "why am i not getting hard". I shouldve been very erected but even when she gave me head it almost seemed like it was losing its hardness. Her head was good dont get me wrong but idk why this happened. I am 17 and masterbate about 7 times a week. I do watch porn too and have no problem getting hard. So ya, maybe the problem is that im masterbating and watching porn. Sadly, it may be time to just stop that just so i can increase my size when i actually have to perform.

Damn that's facts I believe that

I am 25 now similar thing happened to me in my high school years. Your 1st time is special jus like hers so treat as such. Think about the scenerie, mood, and attire. You both need to be comfortable enough to make it happen. Have wear something that really turns u on, play some music. And start working out your confidence will lead the way

To get hard erection lot's of medicine are available.

Hahahha i love you man

Hahha bro fist 8|
Im 20 and still virgin :D

There is a disorder called PIED or "Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction". I'm dealing with it now. Lay off any masturbation for at least a month, and do not watch porn for at least 6. If you masturbate after abstaining for awhile, make sure it's not frequently. Once or twice a week at the most.

If you haven't masturbated frequently in the past, then I'm not sure what to tell you. You may want to see a doctor as it could be a hormonal imbalance.

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