CAN'T GET AN ERECTION WHEN IM WITH MY GIRLFRIEND

Guest over a year ago

I'm 18 I've never done more than make out with a girl. Last night I was at a party and had a few shots and then started hooking up with a girl who I know really well and we went into a room and she got on top of me and we both took our shirts off and she took her bra off and then she offered to give me a blowjob except I wasn't hard so I said to wait a minute but still nothing happened so she asked me if I didn't want to and I just said I was nervous because my heart was beating really hard, so we stopped. Now I'm extremely frustrated with myself. I don't think I'm gay, so I guess it was just anxiety or maybe I had drunk too much already, but I can't stop beating myself up about it.

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Guest over a year ago

Finally i got help....stoping masturbating and watching porn will resolve de problm...

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Guest over a year ago

I have had the same problem non-stop since I was 20. Today I am almost 29. I had my first and only serious girlfriend when I was 18, and never had any erection problems. However, I have had severe difficulty getting and maintaining an erection with every girl I have been with since then, including my present fiancée who I have been with for nearly 5 years. Now it seems like our engagement could end, and we break up forever due to my erection problem. I have seen 4 medical specialists that have ruled out any medical cause for my problem. I have even done hours of phsycological therapy, sex/relationship therapy, and acupuncture. Nothing has made a tremendous difference for me. I don't watch porn like I used to when I was 14 to 23. I just want to be able to physically live my fiancée, and spend the rest of my life with her, but it looks like I've reached the end of the road in terms of options for a solution to my problem. I hope you all have better luck.

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Guest over a year ago

I have d sam problem need help

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Guest over a year ago

Im having issues getting hard because i am diabetic. I try to llease my girlfriend but it wont get hard.....it gets a little hard when she does oral on me but it goes limp fast. Im embarrassed by it but she keeps reassuring me that she loves me and she knows its my diabetes. Any suggestions.....beacause i want to give her the night of her life.

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Guest over a year ago

Am 22years old. I had the same problem as yours guys since last year. When am with my girl I always loose my erection especially when we take off our clothes but when am alone I get the hardest erection am so obsessed I can't even skip a day without thinking about that past..it seem like am going to loose her by the way she act and I really loVe her... So what I suppose to do??
Please help...
Thanx

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Guest over a year ago

Same for me I'm 16 and I just tried for the second time. I got it in and was going for about a min then it just went soft . So good luck to us both on the 3rd attempt

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Guest over a year ago

I'm so happy I'm not the only one that has this problem

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Guest over a year ago

Hey.. i had the same problem but i spoke to a married friend of mine. he advise me to get my girl to lick my anal area and to lick my nipples and stop thinking of other girls while im having sex. this is mainly if something distracts you. stop thinking of your ex or other women whom you fancy about. focus on your girl and let all your thoughts in your head go away...
trust me ... this is the reality.

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Guest over a year ago

Hey.. i had the same problem but i spoke to a married friend of mine. he advise me to get my girl to lick my anal area and to lick my nipples and stop thinking of other girls while im having sex. this is mainly if something distracts you. stop thinking of your ex or other women whom you fancy about. focus on your girl and let all your thoughts in your head go away...
trust me ... this is the reality.

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Guest over a year ago

Worries, money problems, work problems and all that just won't let you have sex easy. If you are brain dead, your penis will work everyday, it has its own small brain. But if it is controlled by your main brain, it will have some downs.

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Guest over a year ago

I'm having the same problem, my girlfriend and I make out and stuff and I'm rock solid, but once she starts touching down there and clothes start coming off, it goes down almost automatically. It's annoying and embarrassing and I don't know if nerves are to blame but I want it to stop as soon as possible. I masturbate probably once a day and don't find issues then

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Guest over a year ago

Same problem with me but I'm 14 and we do some hot sh*t ya know what I mean boys she's like on top of me on my lap (same thing) but I just can't do it so I've ether had to tell her blatantly or try and dodge sex ever tho I shouldn't have it so early ya know I still want it u guys know how it's is being a little horn dog at my age

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Guest over a year ago

Iv got the same problem I but the way mine goes id I can get hard when im with my girlfriend in school but not out in the woods where we have sexual thing such as fingering hand job blow job,the first time we attempted sex I couldn't get hard so I failed second time I got slightly hard and I went inside her so technically im a non virgin but I got soft in side her after a while ,I would think her being older than me would make it so much easier in the sense that pretty much all guys I know had or having a dream about a older slightly older woman taking advantage of them my girlfriend was 16 at the time I was 16 now she's 17 and I'm still 16 but she went to a church thing over the summer and is now wanting to wait till marriage to have sex again so now I don't have to worry about this problem for now no it's not like she wanted to stop because she lost interest in me and doesn't find me attractive but she's only doing it to better herself because she is still happy with me but I have a feeling one day soon maybe not soon but eventually she will change her mind because she has done this before but I have yet to find out if she wants to have sex before marriage but idk , it's okay if she doesn't want to I love her just the same

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Guest over a year ago

Well im 16 as well and completely not nervous and I dont understand were both virgins and the same thing is happening. I dont masturbate hardly ever and never watch porn I focus on the feelings but it doesnt work im not nervous we are really comfy this is my first sexual relationship but I feel ready and she wants it too idk what to do I can only get 50% hard or less what do I do

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