CAN'T GET AN ERECTION WHEN IM WITH MY GIRLFRIEND

I have had that problem my entire sexual life, the first time I went to have sex the last thing I thought would ever happen I could not get an erection to make a long story short I had to tell my parents which was extremely embarrassing then I had to go to the doctor which was extremely embarrassing get a prescription of Viagra take it to the pharmacy which was embarrassing only to find my insurance did not cover it and im sixteen I dont have hundreds of dollars for a few pills my parents had to buy it for me then I was finally able to have sex after about 20 times of using the viagra I was able to do it without the viagra however with every new girl the problem comes back I have been married for about 10 years and I still have the problem off and on Its terrible no one to talk to about it due to the nature of the problem I really feel for you and it only makes things worse that doctors just look at you like your nuts because they think your to young for such a problem

bruh man .. same problem, same age. but she broke up with me after the 2. time i couldnt get an errection i feel guilty for it

Alright, so I'm 18. I've had sex a decent number of times before but now I haven't done it in like 6 months! :( with my ex we never had sex and I think that's why she left me tbh... I can get oral and get hard as hell but when it's showtime I freeze up. Can't keep a hard on or can't get hard even when the booty is grinding on me. It's f*cked up and makes me nervous/insecure as hell. I'm gonna see a therapist asap. However this new girl I'm with says it's okay. She still likes me for me and tries to comfort me. And she said my head game was 10/10. And that was the second time I gave oral!! But she enjoyed it. Just dont sweat the small stuff, still many ways to please your lady even if you don't put it in. All these comments were very helpful. Glad to know there are many other guys who can relate. But honestly in that 6 months I started watching a lot of porn and I think that might be why I have troubles with intimacy.. just be wary. Don't go to the Internet for sexual desires 24/7. Dont overthink, overreact, be nervous or doubt yourself. Having confidence and wanting to improve is KEY. Mack some hoes Gs.

Read this thread as it's something you hear very little about and a reason I always advise teens of both sexes not to masturbate to porn. https://www.steadyhealth.com/topics/soft-erection-how-can-i-stay-hard?p=2010381#2010381

This may be late to the party but... I’m 42 and she’s 20, we’ve only been together for a few months but I know I want to spend the rest of my life with her. I have no problem masturbating or with past girls. I know it’s anxiety because I don’t want to screw things up with her. We’ll be fooling around I get erect and then when I go to put it in it goes flaccid. I tell her it’s not her, I think she’s beautiful and I tell her she’s done nothing wrong and everything right. I know it’s anxiety because I don’t want to mess up what we have, but it’s hard to overcome said anxiety

Just take things slowly and don't aim for intercourse let it happen naturally, there are other ways you can pleasure her without intercourse and if she loves you she will understand.

I’m about to turn 17 and just the other day me and my girlfriend that I’ve been dating for a year decided to have sec since we messed around often she’s a virgin and I’ve had sex with 3 different girls before with no problem but with her I couldn’t keep it up for the life of me I didn’t even seem that worried about my package or how I use it since I’ve had sex before but it just wouldn’t come up. I can keep it up when I’m alone but not with her when we are just kissing it stays up but when we got to getting undressed it wouldn’t stay up at all :(

I just saw this even though you posted a year ago but I needed to hear this so thank you.