CAN'T GET AN ERECTION WHEN IM WITH MY GIRLFRIEND

Stress has a major part to play, but so does your sexual drive. If you are completley relaxed with her and not worried about a thing then when you get intimate you should do so without sex. Have more foreplay and hold back on sex and masturbation for a few days and each time you see her repeat the process. There is a such a thing as too much masturbation/sex so you need to build up that sexual energy. Besides your a teenager your hormones will probably be going crazy anyway.

If you masturbate and watch porn then thats one reason. search porn related ED on youtube.

Yeah, the same thing just happened to me. This chick I mess around with looks way better than my girlfriend. I'm hard for the first part. But then I just go soft. It's embarrassing and she keeps blaming herself. I hate they feeling because I really want to just have sex with her do bad

wats up my name zay and i cant get a full erection.. i been knowing my girlfriend for seven yrs and we only been doing it for 5 yrs and it frustrates me that i cnt get it up for her and it makes her really angry... wat should i do

Gentlemen, I suffered the same way for weeks and it was awful. My remedies? Having her over in the morning or staying overnight. The average male gets a full erection at least 3-5 times a night between 6-8 hours of sleep. Since every dude has to take a leak in the morning set an alarm on your phone and come back go to sleep or try. Getting an erection should be easy at that point. Other tips? Well working out an hour or two before will help, listen to music during to keep your stress at bay. Be honest with her when not it be but cuddling, my gf totally did. If your gf doesn't, she is not worth it. Take a MENS multivitamin, it's never too early or too late. Go on a date before you are going to be in the same bed. Don't plan on sex almost ever. Shower with her. If she doesn't feel comfortable strip, she will feel much better and if that doesn't do it make out with her while taking her clothes off and don't look at her full body until in the shower, if all else fails turn the lights off. Anyway light candles play music, lots of foreplay will help you both. It's a process but worth not having to worry.

yes i have similar problem ,i have just start dating this girl , i have known her for a while on tagged site ,but i have started dating her ,but i dont see her that much ,and when we do ,and i lick her out or finger her ,i still dont get a hard on ,but she does not crested me ,she just thinks she can just put my penis in her ,and it has course some un-comfort between us ,like she has not contacted me but she will speak if i contact her ,but i have this other girl as mates and we had sex the other week at the same time as going out with this other girl which is not that attracted but ok girl ,but the other girl i had sex with ,happened the same ,where i fingered her and gave her a orgasm but as i was fingering her she was playing with my penis ,but it did not even get hard ,,so am wondering is it my age ,with being 50 or is the medication for depress , but i dont take the tablets like i should i dont seem to get pleasured when getting the girls off ,its like am trying to impress the skills of giving the girls a multiple orgasm and not getting turned on my self ,,or is it that i watch to much porn ,which as crossed my mind ,i jack off about 5 to 6 times a week ,now am thinking it could be that ,but when am in my bed and wake up in the morning ,i sometimes have a hard on ,so this is very confusing to think i can get a hard on ,but not when a she a girl nude ,with big tits ,but she is not the nicest looking girls i have been out with ,but nothing like my normal girls i use to go out with or have, a one night sand with ,the 2 girls i have spoke about is not that attracted to me that much ,but am trying to get back on my feet with the traumas that has happened to me and destroyed my life ,and made me feel nerves to people to a point ,but i feel if i got to know the girl or woman longer i think inter-mat would be easier to get a hard on and have sex with a girl or woman whats the best way to deal with this problem ,,any helpers out there lol

im 21 to and this just happened to me my girl is pissed thinking im cheating on her or just thinking shes not pretty enough. but I am aroused by her maybe im having an off morning..

nnnicholusHey,i to have the same promle,my peins can't be up even for two min and my grilfrirnd is always disapointed with coz i can't have sex with her

Hey I have heard about that but i still need help because my girlfriend thinks my penis is small because It doesent her fully erected And stuff can it be that I'm just nervous Or that porn thing?

Maybe you should try getting her pleasured Most guys get turned on by seeing their girlfriend enjoying when you touch them Best bet you should try playing with her and eventually you should start getting an erection Also you guys may have to be a little more naughty or have some foreplay And you should see a difference and if you I know she probably thinks she's doing something wrong cause you ain't getting erected But you just need to tell her it's not her fault and play with her turn her on so she doesent feel guilty But if you masturbate and watch porn STOP from the day you read this and forever You have a girlfriend she can do all that for you Also try and relax don't focus to much on getting an erection enjoy how it feels and I promise you will start getting harder than a rock it also may be that your nervous about something and that stops blood flow I'm your penis just RELAX and think of something dirty with your gf and don't forget it may help if you play with her talk dirty too makeout and touch her and she touches you it may alone help if your naked and she is too Maybe try getting the place to your self or something....goodluck ;) hope this helped

You'll have to understand this problems resides within the mind not the penile area. You can achieve a hard d*ck and its not going to take a "year" either. First off, DO NOT EVEN TOUCH YOUR penis FOR FOUR DAYS. Yes, four (4) atleast. THIS TIME LAPSE IS CRITICAL FOR SUCCESS. (no sh*t you can take a piss). And if you don't know how to wait four days make it five cause you'll need to reset. If your girlfriend wants to f**k you can tell her to f**k off (cause you probably won't satisfy her anyway). What I'm going to tell you next is the steps I took (so it may not work for you but hey, you might as well try it because the "turned on goat weed" pills won't help, I've tried that too). So SAVE YOUR MONEY and try these outlined steps. Step One: Don't touch it unless your gonna use it. I think this is one of the most important points I can make. Another important thing to say is do not jerk off because your turned on, jerk off when its the appropriate time. If your studying in your room and nobodys home but there's a big test tomorrow. NOT THE TIME. Things like this allow your penis to be in control and that's not what were trying to achieve. Step Two: Find a very relaxing place in you can experiment. I find the best place is in my bath, this is where i first overcame my problem. I feel it allows your body to become more sensitive because of your skin soaking in the water becoming temporarily higher in hydration. So.. Pour yourself a bath. Step Three: Put on or think of something that is sexy but not hard core. Maybe a strip tease BUT NOTHING HARDCORE OR HENTAI. The point of this to get prepped for real life experiences not some hyped bull sh*t. If you can go less the go for it. Also, small point but has merit, the less attractive the woman your masturbating to is the better. The reason behind this is to be prepped for REAL LIFE. You don't want to go soft because you got a 7 for the night. Step Four: DONT EVEN TOUCH UNTIL ITS FULLY ERECT, you'll get there but it takes concentration. Again, DO NOT TOUCH. Btw, if you can't get it erect STOP, enjoy the rest of your bath and try again tomorrow. DO NOT CONTINUE IF IT DOES NOT ERECT FULLY. ***Continue to this step only with a penis of steel*** Step Five: Jerk with maybe two or three fingers at a very slow speed. Don't touch the tip, only the shaft. The speed I'm talking about is 30BPM MAXIMUM. Yes thats one jerk for every two seconds. Your going to have go get creative to cum at these speeds. Though if your determined, you WILL achieve success. AGAIN, IF YOU GO SOFT STOP AND TRY AGAIN TOMORROW, DO NOT CONTINUE HALF ERECT. Step Six: Only cum if your FULLY HARD and beating at 30 beats a minuteor less. DO NOT CUM JUST BECAUSE YOUR "ALMOST" THERE. Step Seven: SUCCESS, follow the steps every four or more days for a retrained sex drive and penis of STEEL What we're trying to do is retrain your sex stimulus. The first time I tried this was when I couldn't get my penis hard for anything it was nerve shaking so I did the most sane thing I could think of. i.e. what's above. Remember, it has NOTHING to do with your penis or anything related to that area. It has EVERYTHING to do with your mind. You don't need to stop for a "year" but you do need to reprogram your sex drive. Follow the steps above and get back to me with your results.

Porn is ruining all of your erections.

Try it with a guy

How can I wash thw doubts away please respond

Same. I'm 17 & I've slept with 6 girls but I can't get hard. Even when I can have sex it goes limp when I'm out.