CAN'T GET AN ERECTION WHEN IM WITH MY GIRLFRIEND

the first time i had sex i had a semi and thats all i could get i wanted to f**k her but my knob didnt for some reason. sometimes you have to dissapoint the first girl or the same girl for a few times before it becomes natural and you become more arroused by touch rather than sight i dont think you suffer from performance anxiety at all due to you mentioning masterbation which is quite visual based rather than touch which has wired your brain differently. after having sex more often than masterbating this problem will go away. also a little tip 3-6 minuets isnt that long as when you get older you will realise that forplay is amazing for the guy coz it just makes the girl so much more hornier so that time your taking to get up could be used to get ur girlfriend ready

Mabye u need to try and see if it will be the same problem when ur with an other girl (;

Thanks alot that may be true

Seem to be having the same problem fellas but im pretty sure i know my problem. 19 with the girl of my dreams whos 10 years older. I can hold enough of an erection to do the job but wont become fully erect. My problem is i was a porn addict for years. Masturbated atleast once a day. Quit about a month ago and now having this problem. Im honestly scared that it couldve ruined my sex drive forever by watching the perfect girl all the time. If anyones ever been in my shoes please comment back and let me know if your sex drive has returned or not. Thanks

Don't worry buddy, just stop watchin porn, and try not to masturbate for 30-90 days and your brain is going to reset itself, and you will start again to have strong erections with your partner, morning wood, better mood overall, etc.. If you are interested more about this go tu subreddit nofap or pornfree.. Also read some articles google for yourbrainonporn for some in-depth infrimation. Good luck.

Bro.. I strongly believe that's what's causing the problem.. I need to stop doing it. U make perfect sense.. I wish I did not start in the first place.. I want to get the old me back.. I'm gonna quit.. If only u guys knew the position that I'm in as I'm typing this message.

I know im VERY late but i just wanted to know did it work on your third try?

It's anxiety.  Subconsciously your now worrying that every time you get close with your girlfriend you'll fail and consequently it happens.  I had the same problem at 17.  Here's what to do: sit and meditate, tell yourself that you can and you will get hard, as you meditate work to get hard gently, then when your with your girlfriend, get relaxed, get yourself into that meditative state, get her to sit on your face and gently pleasure yourself whilst eating her out and getting your mind relaxed.  Once your stuff, enter her doggy style and after a few strokes and you realise that everything's ok, your confidence will soar and that will be the end of your problem.  You might have to do this a few times, but the key is relaxing and positive self talk.

I'm 16 and I have the same problem :/ you said the third time you got it fully erected, how was that?

I'm going through the same thing now. Its been a phew months since I've broken up with my ex of almost 4 years and now I have a new girlfriend. But when we start ( kissing) everything is fine and i get hard, but if I do anything further, its relaxes and I don't know why. It is frustrating because I really like this girl and I don't think I'm nervous about anything when it comes to having sex but who knows.

I had the same problem but then I went to a party got really drunk and I went to the bathroom with my girlfriend and I got a boner straight away! Just clear your head and don't think about it or just get really drunk haha

This same thing is happening to me And I was freaking out. These are so nice to be able to see.

Hey dude, I am 19 years old and have the same exact problem. My girlfriend is a virgin as well. It sucks so bad. I am able to make her dripping wet with my fingers but I can't get hard around her only by myself no problem. As soon as she touches me I lose all libido. Have you figured out the answer yet? How can I get it up it is so sad to have to deal With this it honestly makes me want to punch myself. I'm going to try and stop watching porn, I feel like porn has ruined me or something and I am going to stop masterbating for a while

Two days ago?? Dude. We should call each other And figure this sh*t out no one around me has this problem so it sucks having to talk to no one that understands. I'm 19 years old, if you are like 50, forget about it

Literally, same here. As soon as she touches it it goes down. I like that so many people have the same problem as me I don't fkn get it