Same! I'm 15, and that same stuff happens to me. When I'm by myself or jus chillin, I get hard, but then when the time comes to put it in with my girl, it doesn't get up. I get semi erect at most, and when I do get a boner, its not for very long. I was reading some of the other comments and they are probably right. Most likely just nervousness and anxiety. All though I don't feel anxious or nervous at all and am 100% confident in my sexual capabilities, I do at times notice my legs shaking lowkey...
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Ok so I am 22 and I have been having this problem for quite some time it seem to be able to get hard perfectly fine when fooling around such as in hand jobs or jus cuddling but when we are in private and about to have sex I can't seem to get hard no matter what I try and I can't seem to calm myself down thinking it could be anxiety idk what to do... Please help if anyone can.
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I'm 20 and I've had this problem since I started having sex. I've been with a few girls but never really had a confident erection or sex, ever. These were all one night stands and one friends with benefits. I'm normally a descently nervous person and pleasing my lover definitely scares me.
Now I am entering a relationship and i absolutely adore who I am with. I'm just afraid that I won't be able to pleasure her thoroughly. That's all i want to do. I know she's amazing and beautiful but even when I have a hard on and try jerking off to a photo of her i can't do it.
When we have had sex the first few times I couldn't hold an erection for long and I feel very bad. Does anyone have any techniques to try to relax? Any way to fix this issue? It honestly terrifies me and is a huge mental burden right now.
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Thanks bro I was tryna f**k this girl last night I was hard when we were cuddling in car but when i was bout to f**k couldn't get it up probably for the best considering I diddnt have a condom and I'm 15 was a little drunk to
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Hey I'm 16 and am having a similar problem. Me and my girl had sex for the first time this past Saturday and ever since I can't get hard or have such trouble getting hard no matter what . She wants to have more sex and keeps asking if next time I'm gonna be ready because she wants to have a lot of sex because we're so on love now and have always had fun in bed. I was find a week ago but now I can't get hard even if I'm by myself and I try my best, please help ??????? Btw I was in the hospital 2 months ago and when I got out I was put on a lot of medication for a month and Just stopped taking it?? Does that have to do with it ???
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