Hi there guys
The problem is that I'm a 23 year old dude that just never had sex - no matter how many times I got close, it never happened. By this point im really a wreck about it, I constant think about my size, if I ever will be able to do it, If im gonna please a woman etc.
About 1-2 months ago I started dating this chick from college and last night we started cuddling (not the first time) but this time it evolved into some touching and me fingering her.. BUT I couldn't get an erection, I tried doing foreplay for a while, but it all felt mechanical and I was constantly thinking about nothing getting it up! I tried to relax and NOT think, but it didnt work - I felt really embarassed and uncomfortable, even though she said it was totally fine.
Im worried she'll ditch me for this sh*t, after all im 23 and this isnt normal for a 23year old dude.. We are not boy/girlfriend, we are just dating but really like each other. I don't know if I should talk with her about it, or would it scare her away? And what can I do, when im in this situation? Feels like I have tried everything..
P.S I dont have problems getting an erection otherwise
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Okay I was kinda in same boat as you its fine man. all that c**p doesnt matter focus on her or sometimes kissing passionately helps. If all else fails maybe she can help and you guys can do the job ok. Just relax its a common situation for guys. It'll happen just make sure you take precautions and you'll be fine.
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Thanks for the answer!
Im really thinking about telling her this. Just levelling with her and maybe asking her for "help" ? :)
Im really thinking about telling her this. Just levelling with her and maybe asking her for "help" ? :)
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