cuts on labia and inflamation

Ive been having horrible symptoms for two months now! My vaginal lip (left side) is very inflamed and when I shower it feels raw. It is also very red and I feel like I have cuts but only on the left side. I cant see anything with a mirror and I'am starting to thing these cuts are microscopic. Before all of this I used nair to remove my bush and I had cuts all over the place from the nair burning me I then had very rough sex. The next day I got my period and after my period was over is when all of the symptoms started. I thought it was herpes but I have no sores and I have a white discharge all the time! except when I'am on my period (which is the only time I have any relief!) I thought it was the nair causing all of this but its been two months! and it doesent seems to get any better. Iam getting really scared and the closest appt I could get is in December..I'am desperate to make this stop..I havent had sex and have completly eliminated chocalate, caffiene, and spicy foods out of my diet. Does anybody know what this is? I'am starting to think its herpes or a haorrible yeast infection (Ive never had one in my life) so I dont know what they feel like.