Hello! I'm a girl who has been dating her boyfriend for almost four months now and him and I have yet to have sex. Earlier he was fingering me and all was well but then I went to the restroom and it hurt extremely to try and urinate and I realized I was bleeding a lot. It's been a while since then and I am still bleeding quite a bit and it hurts to try and go to the restroom. I'm feeling extreme discomfort and pain and am actually worried. This has not been the first time I've been fingered and this has never happened before. I am a virgin though. Please help me in understanding what is happening and if I should be worried. Would it be a bad idea to try and put a train in to help stop it a little? Or would that boy be in my best interest? Please help.
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Hi mckenzieda. The season why you are so tight is because of a number of different reasons such as your body is still developing yet your not fully comfortable yet subconsciously to have a sexual relationship so your body tenses up your scared because it's your first time and you tense up or your just not having enough foreplay to lubricate your vagina and to give it chance to relax and expand ready for intercourse. I do hope that you are using a condom when you trying as well because he your not then there would be a high chance of pregnancy even if he says he will pull out! If you masturbate when your alone are you able to finger yourself ok?
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Like I said it's hard to get more than a finger inside of me without it being uncomfortable. I feel extremely comfortable with him and we do have foreplay it's just hard for him to get very far inside of me without me being in extreme pain.
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In that case take notice what your body is telling you that it's not ready yet. Your vagina will stretch big enough to let a baby through when ready.
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