Family Ties that break apart due to another member of the family that is Gay /Lesbian treating the gay /lesbian individual like a worst enemy . The worst part of it is when family spread rumors that are lie's about the gay/lesbian family member to try turn other family against them causing family to become very dysfunctional quarreling with one another causing emotional stress amongst other family member's . The very few members of family that understand stay in tact and connected to family relationship with the gay/lesbian family member .