hey m 16 nd half years old female....my bf is 18 we really love each other nd he is very caring towards me...a couple of weeks ago we decided to have sex...it was my first time nd i didn't bleed but i was feeling pain alot when my bf was penetrating his penis...the first time was weird it was like so tight nd his penis was going half into the vagina nd was coming out..now we have sex for 3 times after that nd everytime i dont bleed but i feel pain whenever he penetrates..i have never tried fingering toys or masturbate before..really i didn't but i was having irregular periods problem..i was having periods after every 20-22 days..now the question stands is how come i didnt bleed my first time ..is my hymen broken bcoz of my irregular periods problem???? m really worried m bf is stressed ..but i was virgin before i really love him plzz help..m waiting for suggestions..thnx
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not everyone bleeds afte there first time..so dont worry and you hould ony have a little pain when u have sex then it should turn into plessure...and you hould try anal i know it sounds nastey and everything but it feels great but if u do ty it it hurts like hell the first time and u should get lube
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I'm 16 and my boyfriend is also 18, and nearly 4 months back i also had sex the first time with him, and never bled.
Some girls aren't born with one, and some girls were broken when they were little and don't remember.
I think if he loves you enough he should believe you and know you wouldn't lie to him.
Another thing is, sometimes a girls hymen doesn't break until a few years down the line, i am not sure why but it can happen suddenly without any explanation, even when you've had sex before.
Sex shouldn't hurt it should be pleasureable, make sure you are wet enough and ready before you have intercourse, because it will make it all a lot better.
If you are still wondering or need answers, i'd see a nurse and ask her what she may think about it.
P.s - I wouldn't listen to the person above about trying ''anal sex'' if sex is already hurting you, anal is gonna be so much more worse and uncomfortable and can cause more problems.
I have never done it and don't wish to, if you do ever become comfortable in sex and want to try it, i do advise that you be careful and be safe when you do it in your own time.
Hope this helps!:) x
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well im 17 and my boyfriend is 21 i think i might know what im talking bout and i didnt tell er she had to thank u
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Like everybody has been saying. Not every girl bleeds during there first time! Im 17, my boyfriend is 18,and when me and him starting have sex, I didnt ever bleed. Having some pain is okay, it's because you havent ever had sex before, to you are tight. Trust me it will go away and all you will be able to feel is pleasure!
Dont stress over this! Everything is going to be okay..just let him know that everythings okay!
Hope this helps!(;
Dont stress over this! Everything is going to be okay..just let him know that everythings okay!
Hope this helps!(;
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