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I m 19 n I had sex with my boyfriend for the 1st time.. when we had sex, there was no bleeding but a lot of pain but after sex when I urinated I had a small blood clot in my urine.. n the color of the urine was also a bit pinkish.. my boyfriend thinks I was not a virgin because there was no bleeding.. please help me prove him that I was a virgin before having sex with him

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Well if he believes what you just described (he wasn't there watching you pee was he?) I think you have a pretty good case. It's rather obvious from you described that your body wasn't accustomed to having a penis poking around inside it.

A bigger worry for you should be, why doesn't he believe you? If he has that little faith in you, you need to find someone who does.

Personally I never felt a girls previous sex life was any of my business. Why did I have any right to expect her to have NO experience? Furthurmore, why should I expect her to tell me about it? Unless she had a disease I needed to know about.

 

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i need medical advise on why i didnt bleed?

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Who told you that?
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Not every female bleeds their first time, I can attest to that one too. Sometimes, through play as young girls, sports, gymnastics, bicycles, etc you can break your hymen which doesn't mean you are not a virgin just that you don't bleed during your first time having sex, as you experienced it still bloody well hurt as your vagina still had to stretch to accommodate his penis. Is it due to his religion that he doesn't believe you? Hope this helps
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Hi, the whole bleeding the first time is a myth. many girls don't as lizardqueen said. i didn't. I used to ride horses, but any vigorous  sport could break the hymen. There is no way of knowing if a woman is  virgin other than asking her and trusting her answer. If he doesn't trust you on this what else wont he trust you about. Trust is essential in a relationship. Explain to him that bleeding is not a sign of virginity. A reasonable person will accept that. Also, sex shouldn't hurt. Take it really slowly and make sure there is lots of foreplay and you are very aroused before you have intercourse nd it will be mire pleasurable. All the best

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Thank u soo much everyone for supporting me. . I shall talk to him about it
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