I'm 18 and attempted to lose my virginity with my boyfriend yesterday.. His Penis would not fit inside me, he's a virgin too and has quite a large penis about 7 inches. Is there something wrong with me? We tried a couple of times but it hurt a lot and I now have slight bleeding, but his penis did not fit in. Is this normal? Will it ever go in?
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Hi Guest,
Yes, it's normal.
You can unconsciously be "clamping" down as he tries to enter or you may not be aroused (wet) enough.
He will also need to take his time, to allow your body to adjust to his penis. He can't just "ram" it in.
It's very likely a combination of several of these.
You might try starting with fingering, increase the number of fingers you use gradually. Be sure to use plenty of lube too. You can bleed at any time, the tissues are very vascular and bleed easily. It does not necessarily mean that he tore your hymen. That can be uncomfortable for you too.
It's not going to be like you see on TV. Just relax and go slow.
Good luck.
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