IF you use a small thin vibrator or use your middle finger and keep the finger on the top wall of the vagina! The coveted G-Spot is a cluster of nerves that SOME women reach orgasm with, and some don't even find it! So don't concentrate too much on it IF you don't react with it!
The G-Spot is a spongy erectile tissue! And actually expands and grows - with blood - when aroused!JUST like the penis! So stimulate yourself first, then you would remember to keepyour finger just a little crooked - so if your hand is flatout (Palms up with your middle finger bent slightly in towards you) so you insert your finger as far as you can go, NOT pushing on the bottom of your vagina - where they hymen is - so when inserting your finger will be straight! Then slightly bend your finger towards your wrist,and you should feel a spongy cluster! THAT is the G Spot! And you WILL react if you find it! BUT I want you to keep in mind that many women don't get it, and they don't need it! Behind the Gspot is a gland called the Skenes Gland- this is where some women produce Ejaculation Fluid! Not ALL but some women can reach multiple orgasms and even female ejacultion can be achieved with the tapping of the G-Spot and IF you press - with the other hand - on top (outside the body) and press down with the hand, and up with your finger! IF something happens GREAT! IF not don't worry - most women will tell you that Clitoral stimulation IS the one! Everyone is different So just experiment!
Also I just wanted to point out something - as I have been asked MANY times about this - even though there are cultures and nationalities that still believe in getting proof of the brides virginity from bloody sheets! In the 10th century of space exploration, etc. MORE and MORE people understand that the little flexible piece of tissue at the bottom of the vagina is VERY sensitive to objects! Tampons, fingers, vibrators, and even riding bikes etc. ALL of these CAN cause the hymen to break! IT is up to the woman to say "You need to believe me that I am still a virgin" I think that IF more women stood up and said "Just because my hymen tore does NOT mean that I am not a virgin" It's up to women to NOT be degraded like that! And to demand respect from ALL others- including family members and fiancee's!
SO many women were killed because they did not bleed on the wedding night! Of course it was more like the man was SO small that he didn't even make a difference! Also some women tear a little a bleed a bit, some bleed for a couple of days, some hurt IF they urinate, women are ALL diferent! NOW if it is crucial that you have an intact hyment! There are surgeries that can be done to reattach it! So don't owrry1 Just be careful and gentle! And only use small appliances and fingers OK?