I am a 19 year old female who has only had one "partner". I am stilla virgin and my ex and I have never had sex..the only thing that had been performed had been him giving me oral. That was roughly 6 months ago. Yesterday, I woke up at around 5 in the morning to a weird sensation around my vagina. Upon furthur examination I found a large bump on the upper part of the outter lip of my vagina. I grew very worried and am still trying to figure out if it is something I should be concerned about.

The bump it self is not itchy, more so un comfortable. It is, bulbous I would say but not exactly a bump, it's more so still a part of my flesh...I guess they best way to describe it would be just a raised, fleshy area. It does not have a head on it and I have not been having any of the usual herpes symptoms (Headache, stomach cramps, etc.) I am experiencing discharge but I believe my period is about to begin soon.

I have never had any bumps, that I know of, on my vagina like this before. There is only one there. I know the best recommendation is to just go to the doctor but I just wanted to see if anyone else had a solution or thought as to what it might be.