I'm really worried .. Today I realized I had a bump on my lip , (vagina) I realized after I was done shaving. I'm worried because I'm not sure if it could be herpes, or if it's a reaction to shaving ? All the times I've shaved before I didn't have any of this. I'm not sure if it's herpes , even though I've had sex with 2 different guys. But my first time was more than a year ago , and my second guy was about 6-7 months after the last time I did it with the first guy. So I don't think it could be herpes because if it were I would've had the reaction ever since. But I barely got the bump today , and I have only been with my second guy now who is currently my boyfriend. I know he was not infected because I was his first, and we haven't had sex with anyone else. Can someone give me feedback ? I would really appreciate it :/ I'm so worried because if I have herpes then I'm afraid I might be putting my boyfriend in danger :( Another question I have is herpes is only passed if a person is infected right ? Like for example if you have sex with someone who isn't infected and you're not infected neither, and you keep having sex with ONLY that one person. (FOR SURE) You won't get infected right? Someone please help , I would appreciate it very much