Ok, Im 22 years of age... ive been masterbating for awhile probally 11. i always did it alot. i still do it alot, 2-3-4 times a day i guess. but thats not the problem... i had a girl friend of 4 .5 years from highschool till college, and had never had a problem w/ erections. we broke up and ive been dating someone else for about a year, and ocasionally when we have sex , it just will start to go limp... it will go up and hard from the easiest thing thats no problem, then well start to do it, and 5-10 minutes into it im thinking about that whole time now dont let this happen but it does. she is away its a long distance relationship right now but when i masterbate it never does. do i do it to much? when ever we have sex im so worried about loosing my erection it really sucks. i really need help w/ this?!?! does masterbating to much hurt it, but why did it start now? is it a mental thing from my previous ex? i need help becuase im 22 , and i dont want to be dealing w/ bad erections all my life. Is this permenent? please help
Loading...
well.. in my opinion.. your making yourself too anxious when your with her. when you masterbate and your all alone, there is no one else there to worry about. like you said, she's long distance so whenever you are together, your trying your hardest to please her. i'm guessing it happened once for no reason at all, and now your freaking yourself out over it. i don't think your ex has anything to do with it. sex is 70% mental and 30% physical.. keep that in mind. don't think about it! stay focused on her and how good you feel and are making her feel. if you start to think about it, focus your attention on her. think of anything sexual, but losing your erection! if your 22, you should have a good handle on your sex drive and if your otherwise healthy, i would say your buzz killing yourself. good luck!
Loading...
My guess is your experiencing anxiety or nervousness. You probably never had erectile problems with your old girlfriend because you were Much more comfortable with her (seeing as you were dating for an extremely long time), and you didn't feel as much of an obligation to please her.
Just relax man. Before you have sex with this new girl of yours, make sure you're not at all fatigued; feel confident, focus on making HER orgasm a reality, not yours. Just don't obsess over it. Enjoy yourself!
Diet and health have been related to erections and erectile problems. Don't smoke heavily or drink often, eat foods that are good for your heart (the more possible oxygen/blood your heart can pump to your organs, the better).
Just relax man. Before you have sex with this new girl of yours, make sure you're not at all fatigued; feel confident, focus on making HER orgasm a reality, not yours. Just don't obsess over it. Enjoy yourself!
Diet and health have been related to erections and erectile problems. Don't smoke heavily or drink often, eat foods that are good for your heart (the more possible oxygen/blood your heart can pump to your organs, the better).
Loading...