yeah, i had same problem.. yesterday me and my girlfriend did it for the first time, she was ready like 10 mins in.. we had to stop after like 45mins coz she got too tired. i still wasn't ready to cum.
very embarrassing. :-( ha
i was using a condom, was VERY tight tho.and felt totally different than normal when she was touching me.
just hope next time will be a bit better. lol
very embarrassing. :-( ha
i was using a condom, was VERY tight tho.and felt totally different than normal when she was touching me.
just hope next time will be a bit better. lol
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Pretty sure it is the condom, if its too tight it makes it really hard to cum, generally me and my gf have sex and i have no problem but the other night i had a condom that as too tight and i just couldnt cum at all, so i think get a bigger one.
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I f*****d my girlfriend about 3 times and she b**w me for about 10 minutes and i felt no where near cumming, but after she left i was able to masturbate and cum, whys this?
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men i hade your same problem . actually i had sex for the first time yesterday
and i couldn't cum i'm so f***ing scared i think that their is something is wrong
with me
and i couldn't cum i'm so f***ing scared i think that their is something is wrong
with me
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Just to throw my 2 cents in (I'm 28, male, married FYI) I have lived with delayed ejaculation for years. There are times where I could have sex for hours without a condom and not be able to finish. Sometimes when I'm masturbating, it can take hours to finally finish myself off. My wife found the cure. She started paying attention to things, and after a little bit of research, I can confirm what she thought. Keep your socks on! I know it sounds crazy, but here's how it works - if your feet get cold, or even just cool, the body alters the blood flow, which slightly alters your boner, and your "urge" to bust a nut. There was one time in the summer, it was hot (we didn't turn on the AC yet) and I couldn't cum. My wife threw a blanket over my back, and within 2 minutes, I came. Body temperature plays a bigger role in this with some men more than others. The condom does dull the sensation a LOT, but it's a necessary evil IMO. Hope this helps ya. Happy nutting!
Razinhail in Missouri
Razinhail in Missouri
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I have the same problem today my girlfriend and I (both virgins) decided to have sex. We both had realistic expectations of what would happen the first time; for her, some discomfort and for me, finishing too quickly. But to both her surprise the discomfort only lasted a few minutes and to my surprise, I couldn't finish! After about an hour and a half of sex I still hadn't finished. I used protection and was able to keep a magnificent boner the entire time. My girlfriend felt ashamed I lasted so long in fact; and naturally I felt like a champion. But, for further adventures into the other world that is vagina I WOULD like to finish so what the hell is wrong with me?
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So, I had sex for the first time two days ago. And everything was gucci in my department. I mean, it hurt like sh*t, but after I got past that everything was fine, but the guy I did it with just couldn't cum. We screwed for three hours trying to get him to cum, and he wouldn't. I think he may have been scared because we didn't use a condom, but I don't know. I actually did have one problem though. I couldn't get very wet? Why is that? I did after a while. But Idk.
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Damn, at least I'm not alone, I thought I was abnormal or something. 2 &1/2 hours, she came 4 or 5 times, and I was nowhere near it. She was damn sexy, and felt damn good. I just blamed it on my back. I just had an acute muscle spasm in the lower left part of my back, and frikkin hurt it. Maybe it was my back, who knows. Doc said sex was a no no till I got better, but the mood was right, the time was right, and I sure as f**k wasn't passing the opportunity up. I looked at it this way, I guess I can keep tryin till I get it right. XD
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When me and my boyfriend and sex for the first time a couple months ago we didn't get anywhere really, mostly cause it hurt alot for me. He was able to stay hard the entire time, until we got dressed, which was about 2 hours. He even said he didn't feel much through the condom. The second time we had sex I let him do his thing, so I could get accustomed, and likewise, this time he was able to orgasm. The condom did slip a little and I felt it, it was SOOOO much warmer, he came shortly after I felt that. So my guess is that it's the condom, it does cut sensitivity a ton. I'm hoping to get on the pill very soon, so me and him can both enjoy full sensitivity.
So yeah, don't worry about it, especially for your first time, even I didn't expect much out of our first time except getting accustomed to the activity. I got more out of being intimately close then actual physical pleasure.
So yeah, don't worry about it, especially for your first time, even I didn't expect much out of our first time except getting accustomed to the activity. I got more out of being intimately close then actual physical pleasure.
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Had the same problem, feels quite nice but nowhere near coming, im puttin it down 2 1st time nerves, but its weird such a big deal made about it and cant even cum
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had sex for the first time last night, used a condom, of course. But even though she came i just couldn't, both when she gave me a blowjob and when we had intercourse. Half the time I couldn't really feel much. In the end she stopped me because she was getting dry, and I was getting soft. The worst part is that after having some pitiful sleep for about six hours, the same thing happened again, now my balls feel like they're gonna burst but I was nowhere near climax at any point.
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How old are you and when was the last time you ejaculated i think you are nerves but you can e-mail i wall be happy to help
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If you jack off to much it can be hard to ejaculate for some reason probably just over doing it Buddie. Besides if u couldn't bust wouldn't that be a good thing keep going for her.
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I had this problem a few months ago, I don't know why but it just popped into my head there and I decided to have a wee Google to see if it was normal. When I had sex for the first time I was going for about half an hour without anything and had to just stop out of tiredness, though in my head I was worrying about not being good enough and got really nervous. In the morning when I was literally about to leave my then girlfriend just kind of grabbed me, I didn't have any time at all to start worrying about it and within 5 mins I was done.
So if anyone else has the same problem, it's probably just down to nerves, once you're either comfortable or don't have time to get nervous you should be fine. :)
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dude i feel you i just had sex for the first time as well a few days ago and i had the same issue it started before i put the condom on i had no problem getting an erection but when she gave me head i could hardly feel her mouth (not her fault from what i could hear because it was dark she was doing an amazing job) and then we jumped to the intercourse (don't worry i ate her out first for a while lol) but when i entered i couldn't feel it i mean i felt that my penis was in her but i couldn't get any other sensation besides that after a while (and a few different positions) she finally had to just lube up my penis to suck and jack it i was embarrassed for the most part (but at least i made sure she came like 2 or 3 times) i finally came but it took a while it was the weirdest thing i've ever experienced fun as all hell but weird
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