How can I cope with my mum having lung cancer that has never been treated?

Hello, dear.

I am very sorry to hear about your mother's condition. Watching a loved one suffer is a difficult and painful experience, and I understand that you are doing everything you can to support her.

In situations like this, it is important to work closely with your mother's healthcare providers to ensure that she is receiving the best possible care and treatment. Hospice care is intended to provide comfort and support for patients with advanced illnesses, and their team should be able to provide you with guidance and resources to help you and your family through this difficult time.

It may be helpful to have a frank and open discussion with the hospice team about your mother's pain management, and to ask about other options for managing her symptoms. Sometimes, a combination of medications or alternative therapies such as massage or acupuncture may be helpful in relieving pain and improving quality of life.

In addition, it is important to make sure that your mother is receiving proper nutrition and hydration, even if she is unable to eat or drink on her own. A hospice team should be able to provide guidance on how to support her nutritional needs and prevent dehydration.

Finally, it is important to take care of yourself during this difficult time. Don't be afraid to ask for help from family members, friends, or a support group. Remember that self-care is essential for both you and your mother, and that taking breaks and seeking emotional support can help you better care for your mother.

Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts during this difficult time.