i did first time sex but no bleeding????????

If you used tampons . That stretches the hymen. This may be why you dinot have bleeding. Sometime it even breaks the hymen. The hymen is usually what is intact before sex for the first time. But it can be torn by tampons and even active sports as a teenager. Of course you had pain, it will get better. Just make sure that you have plenty of foreplay before sex, you want to be very well lubricated. And have your husband go slow, a little at a time makes for more enjoyable and less painful. When I was sixteen and had sex for the first time I did not have bleeding but had lot's of pain. I used tampons during my periods. I woulod not worry. Men do not have bleeding or pain for the first time. And if it was his first time I'm sure he was in a hurry. Take your time and insist that he takes his time. Sex should be enjoyable for the both of you. And women do have orgasms during penetration if your husband takes his time and goes slow. There is a little red book called "How To Satisfy A Women Every Time and have her beg for more! Author Naura Hayden . If you are just starting off in your marriage and starting a sex life you really want to start off on the right foot. Comunication between you and your husband is very important. You should be able to talk about everything. If you are not enjoying sex and nev er let him know, then you will never enjoy sex. Don't get hung up on the bleeding. Not everyone has bleeding. Buy the book and read it together. I promise it works. I am 41 and have mind blowing sex with my husband everytime. I hope this helps.

well as they say its dfferent for everyone, depending if you used a tampon or not, maybe you still are a virgin

not everyone bleeds

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