Please help me its tearing me apart and my husband.
I used to have great libido, i wanted to have sex every day, and then something change 4months ago. I also got a full time job so every week day i would come home and be so tired that i wouldnt want to have sex, so we started having sex on weekends only.
But now days we dont even do that, we tried having sex last night i was still dry, i really dont know what to do, i want to have sex and i love my husband, but i cant seem to do it. We started experiencing this kind of problems maybe 2months ago.
please help me. i feel awfull.
thank you for all your help
I used to have great libido, i wanted to have sex every day, and then something change 4months ago. I also got a full time job so every week day i would come home and be so tired that i wouldnt want to have sex, so we started having sex on weekends only.
But now days we dont even do that, we tried having sex last night i was still dry, i really dont know what to do, i want to have sex and i love my husband, but i cant seem to do it. We started experiencing this kind of problems maybe 2months ago.
please help me. i feel awfull.
thank you for all your help
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It’s OK if you are dry, just get some water based lube and go for it. When you are tired, it may take things a little longer to get moving but once you apply some external lube and start stimulating things, the plumbing will flow. You also might need to explain to your husband that since you are a bit more tired than before, he might need to slow down the pace and take more time getting you going, or let him watch for a few minutes while you get things going on your own.
Fatigue is defiantly a sex killer. If you aren't used to working full time, you may take some time for your body to get used to the new routine. It may sound counterintuitive but do you exercise at all? Working all day may not be as physically taxing as it is mentally which can make you feel lethargic and exhausted. Exercise can rejuvenate your psychological state of mind and will certainly release the hormones that your body needs to recover and repair itself. Exercise is also a great benefit to the libido, it gets blood to flow to all the right places, plus the hormone release often stimulates the sexual arousal cycle.
Lastly, consider a visit to an endocrinologist if this persists. Changes in our endocrine system can alter a lot things like libido and feelings of fatigue.
Fatigue is defiantly a sex killer. If you aren't used to working full time, you may take some time for your body to get used to the new routine. It may sound counterintuitive but do you exercise at all? Working all day may not be as physically taxing as it is mentally which can make you feel lethargic and exhausted. Exercise can rejuvenate your psychological state of mind and will certainly release the hormones that your body needs to recover and repair itself. Exercise is also a great benefit to the libido, it gets blood to flow to all the right places, plus the hormone release often stimulates the sexual arousal cycle.
Lastly, consider a visit to an endocrinologist if this persists. Changes in our endocrine system can alter a lot things like libido and feelings of fatigue.
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