I just ejaculate and dont feel anything

at 14  you can still be unsure about your sexual orientatioin. I had girlfriends and a few experiences after High school. Dating girls was a game, date till you got what you wanted ,then time to move to another. With no real feelings. Maybe the personn you have been with has no real attraction to you. or you for him. alot of guys your age try things. Try making more friends with people that you may have an attraction to, see if when you engage with some one new ,if your feelings change. At some point you figure you want someone that cares for you too. Going from one to another, is neither safe or emotionally good for you. If you watch porn and have only one magazine or dvd, after a while it won't exite you as it did in the beginning. Your just going through the motions.I always found reading stories worked for me, you picture what you want and use people you desire.My Imagination is always better than what some guys film with the same tecniques, and they always become so predictable. When you read,you put your ideal characters into your fantasy and puts you in a better state of mind. There are always people you may not have a chance with, but that doesn't stop me from picturing in my fantasy. And you never want to push a good friend into trying something ,until you feel they might be ok with it.Having good true friends is always more important than momentary satisfaction. I spent time with a staight friend, he is a super guy, But a hug when I left ment just as good ,knowing you have someone is always there for you is better that using people and being alone! Hope that makes sense to you!

thank you but i am pretty sure (if i read your reply right) that im straight and not gay.

sorry, your post needs to be spell checked, there is a difference between, I'm a boy , in a boy, mis-understood

Oh sorry Ill fix it

What if anything are you using for lube? I used vaseline for years,baby oil was to runny and always made a mess. I have found that wallyworld, and other places carry baby oil gel. Under three dollars, and is amazing.Of course it will be in the section for  baby supplies There are some other points as to whether you are cut or uncut. Circumsision, while does not require extra attentionn to clean has a lot of nerve ends and by romoving it, they are gone for good, like wise it covers your Penis entirely, there for making the head especially more sensitive, Try doing it differently, that sounds strange, but there are lots of variations. This may help, but definetley consider the lube you are using, Hand creme is Not on the list of good things to use. Try going for a day or two not doing it and see if when you resume it feels better.